Hello! I'm a submissive looking for a genuine connection with either a switch or domme, where we can explore our kinky together. Either a romantic connection or a fwb-type situation. Here are some facts about me:

• I'm 6'3, average body, long hair, kind of boyish face. Small pp :(

• I'm more of an introvert in day to day life. I get shy, especially around women lol.

• Outside of kinks I'm kind of a nerd. I like movies, programming, gaming and doing creative things like music or arts.

As for my kink side; I am very much a masochist, but like the title says I prefer this to be on a more emotional level. I prefer humiliation, discomfort and a more psychological side of BDSM, rather then physical pain. I also like kink to be very personal. In the past I've most enjoyed someone who really knows how to pick at my brain and find my insecurities and fears, and pushes me over the edge so to speak. Raw, emotional and very personal. This can be as simple as me doing something gross that I really don't want to or just bullying me a bit.

I have a pretty long kink list, so I'll just list a couple main ones I really like.

• Humiliation, name calling, degradation.

• You controlling my body. Being told what holes to fill, how to sit, when to talk and when to cum, etc.

• Cum, spit.. and other fluids.

• Overstimulation, porn, edging and denial.

My hard limits are sounding, heavy pain like knifeplay or extreme cbt, etc., anything illegal and playing under influence.

As for my ideal domme:

• Sadistic. Not very into pure "gentle" femdom. Maybe like. 95% mean, 5% sweet/encouraging.

• Interest in the psychological side of this.

• A connection outside of kink. I don't necessarily need to do things with you outside of kink, but it would be a big plus if we can do things together.

• I don't really care about your body type, height etc. Trans/NB also welcome.

I do have some requirements:

• You are around my age.

• You live in or near the Netherlands. Not only because of timezones but also because I want to meet up eventually (sooner rather then later), and I don't want this to be a problem.

• If you are a switch, don't expect me to change into a dom for you. It will more likely be a situation where we both indulge in our sub side together. I can dom but I really prefer not to.

• You're not scared to voice or video call.

If I seem interesting to you, chat me up!! I'd love to meet you :)