Introduction - who am I?

Well, I'm almost ordinary guy, let's start with the basic details:

• Basics: 37, 175, average/fit, tattooed
• Location: Finland
• Life: Single, no kids, not planning to have
• Open to relocate and discussing online first

I'm living a quite satisfying life right now: an inspiring job (remotely 99% of the time), hitting the gym regularly and cooking, reading and all types of other things nearly middle-aged people tend to do. Simply put: healthy, relatively active lifestyle. In the end I'm after all a bit of a homebody, slightly nerd and enjoy both movie nights and theaters, the more traditional ones too.

As a person I'm emotionally intelligent, communicate openly and value empathy, determined and in relationships I'm pulling my own weight. My feet are firmly on the ground and I'm quite calm person, leaning towards being introverted but get along with people well. I'm more of a dog-person, enjoy serene life and put my effort on things I value - including relationships.

The kinky-side of me

I'm quite openminded when it comes to sex and kinks. I naturally enjoy kissing, cuddling and some vanilla, plus I can be a pleasure or service Dom if you wish me to be. However I'm not really dominant as a person, so it's more about giving pleasure - but that can be done in various ways, so if you wish me to control things, we can do that.

However I'm mainly into being the submissive one or a bottom: I enjoy orgasm control / denial (for extended periods too), pegging and assplay, queening and - if you're into it too - watersports. However, as said I'm extremely openminded: my limits are tickling, scat, blood and severe pain.

I'm not a brat nor expect anyone to break me to their will, I'm more of a obedient sub and do my part to build a working chemistry between us - both in everyday life and in sex. So I'm not expecting the Domme to do all the hard work, I'm very capable in participating.

What and who am I looking for?

I'm looking for a woman who enjoys being the dominant party too: so you can be domme or a switch, as long as there's the domme-part in you! I'm open to FLR as well "just in the bed", it's all about the chemistry. And as said, I'll actively participate in making things work.

Whatever our dynamics would look like, I still wish to be seen and met as fully capably adult in life as I am one: I might sounds a bit obnoxious now, but I can confidently say that I'm the person one can lean on when need be, whether it's in daily tasks or emotionally.

Location-wise I'm quite open, so I am not afraid of a long-distance at first and I can relocate, but we can discuss this later!

Why should you message me?

If you're looking for a submissive man who has their life in order, will contribute to the relationship and is capable of building a working femdom-spiced relationship, please do drop me a message.

Do ask if you have something on your mind, most likely I forgot something!