I like to focus on the psychological component of submission and sadism; your mind is much more interesting to me than your body...
People often find that I am charming, and have a calming presence. I will use this to manipulate your reactions and how you feel. I am accustomed to being in control and because of that I expect my needs to come before yours. While I am accustomed to providing guidance and teaching about bdsm, I play hard and because of that this might not be the best early on experience for those a bit more fresh.
I expect you to be okay with moderate violence, humiliation, choking, and power dynamics. Beyond that, I am flexible about which kinks and fetishes I will explore with you.
This does not have to be sexual, the control and sadism elements are the key components for me. This is about slowly gaining your trust to gain your obedience. Do not waste my time if you are just looking to have a one time sexual conversation. When I manage to find a good connection, I find it leads to a long and engaging dynamic.
I am married. Don't message if this is an insurmountable issue for you.
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