This will probably be a long post, but the right person will appreciate it. I'm one of those people who had a rough start in life. If you had asked me where I would be in 5 years five years ago, I never would have considered where I am today. I am most of the way through my bachelor's degree while beginning my own business and raising my son by myself. I'm among the hardest-working people you will meet, especially when it matters. Since my son was born, I've stayed single to work on myself and be sure I was the best version of myself for whoever my next partner is. I finally feel ready to get serious about that idea, but dating apps have been a brutally miserable ordeal, so here I am shooting my shot to the world in hopes that one right person will be reading these tonight. Vanilla me, I'm really into nerdy stuff, superheroes, MTG, DnD, and I love it. I also adore the outdoors, taking hikes and long walks in the middle of the night. Appearance: I'm tall, 6' 2", and about 250. I currently have a dad bod, but fitness is becoming an increasingly more consistent part of my life, so if you enjoy yoga or a good workout, I wouldn't be opposed to a partner. I also have a medium-length beard and a bunch of tattoos, with more to come. I like good conversation, whether it's about your life or the universe. I believe strongly in honest, open communication. I'm an exceptionally forgiving, nonjudgmental person. I get mental illness and trauma. We can find understanding as long as we come from a place of genuine openness. I'm stuck where I am while I finish my first degree, but after two years, if you aren't open to moving here, I could relocate myself. I want to clarify that I'm not seeking someone to raise my son. I hear a lot of horror stories of men who date women to raise their kids, and this is not that, being an active parent in my son's life is now and will always be my number one priority, and that goes for him and any kids we may have together in the future. Having more kids is also significant, as I love being a dad. I'm a very compassionate human who goes out of my way to help anyone. Now that being said, there's another side to this, a much darker side that loves a good rough fuck, the hardcore fuck that leaves you both walking away a mess, sloppy and messy and covered in marks. Kink, wise, I'm flexible as long as your not vanilla and can at least handle your ass being spanked. Other than that, my kinks are heavily dependent on my partner. I will eat your pussy a lot because I want to see your brain shut off. I don't notice it as something that's for you, but instead, your cumming for my amusement. I'm not just a dom who wants control over you; I am someone who will genuinely provide my life for you, but with that comes the responsibility that I take care of you, and you take care of me.

Now, when it comes to you, this is what I am looking for. Appearance: I'm not very picky; I care a lot more about the content of your character than what you look like. I'm a big fan of brats, but I don't need to. I like it when you give me a reason to punish you. You are caring and compassionate outside the bedroom. I tend to lean left politically, and you should, too. If you want to be a stay-at-home mom, I would love to accommodate that. I can't promise I will never be someone who makes a lot of money because I care a lot more about helping people than making money, but I will always make sure you have what you need, and if there are problems or things you are unhappy about work with you to make them better. I wait a lot to come here expecting luxury. I'm more of a modest-life guy and want someone down-to-earth like that, too. All I want from you is to care for me and my home. I grew up the oldest of 5, taking care of my siblings, so I'm good at caring for others but terrible at caring for myself. I prefer someone who is a sub, but if you would like to switch, I can be convinced. I stay open-minded. Be open to new experiences. I don't do it a lot, but sometimes acid will pass through, and I like to get some and would like that to be something I do with my partner. If I found the right person willing to love me for me and work through things no matter what, I'd marry them in a heartbeat give them a home and as many children as they let me, but I'm cautious not to fall back into old patterns, so I'm not looking to rush anything. we don't need to have everything in common. I'm very open-minded, and I would be interested in exploring your hobbies with you as I get to know you, so message me and tell me about yourself if this interests you and if you send a pic ill makes sure my first message back has one but no rush if you would rather wait.