Sometimes when it comes to people, 1 plus 1 is more than 2. Not because of either person alone, but because of that special quality of how two people interact together. Some call it chemistry. Some call it “clicking”. What it is called doesn’t really matter, and you can’t truly predict it, but when it happens it is magical. Even when it is about a meeting of the minds, or bodies, or interests, or kinks … or yes sometimes a relationship of some form.

I am betting that you are the missing person that makes the special math happen. If you are a little looking for a caregiver or daddy to tuck you in at night, or looking for someone to be a suckling partner for you when inducing lactation or doing adult breastfeeding, or looking for a confident yet respectful partner that can help you explore some mind-blowing orgasms in different ways that other partners haven’t done … then we have a lot to talk about. If you have kinks and are craving to have someone take charge of your body with bondage or CNC play, or are craving to have someone take control of your mind and obedience with a total power exchange or hypnosis or other dom/sub dynamics, or simply have something kinky you want to talk about safely without judgment … then again we have a lot to talk about. What “it” is has much less to do with things than the other factor of if we click or have chemistry together and if the two of us together make the math magical.

But the other important thing is: location, location, location. After having some great math with people that lived far away and the distance got in the way of things working long term, having someone around the Cincinnati area has become an additional key factor. Being able to get together multiple times per month is really the goal, so preferably within 30-40 minutes of downtown Cincinnati or so. Texting, chatting, voice calls, etc. all can fill in the gaps, but are no substitute for using your 5 senses together in person.

If you are still reading then you probably want to know a bit more about me. I am 51 years old, 6’0” and 245 lbs with brown hair and some grey on my head and my goatee. Yes I have a dad bod but I know how to use it. Even though my day job is very intellectual and am a business executive, I also do a lot of work with my hands and body such as construction on my own house, mechanical work on my own vehicles, heavy equipment, and motorcycles, but have also have composed instrumental music and have a very creative side. I am passionate, loyal, and stick to my commitments. I am happy with everyone making their own decisions about their lives (I am very “live and let live”), even though I decided as a teenager to not drink, smoke, use recreational drugs, gamble, or swear, and have stuck to that for 35 years. That means I am always the designated driver though, and I am always watching out for your wellbeing. I am also polyamorous and married to a very kind and open-minded woman that doesn’t feel a need to keep me all to herself (and vice-versa), so it is A-OK for you and me to do what we decide to do without any cheating issues or drama since she will know what we are doing and bless it. What does this mean for you? It means that if the math is right you have a very passionate, dedicated, creative, kinky man who is good with his hands, mind, and body, but will also be protective and respectful of your needs and desires in whatever we get involved in, and you get all that for “free” without the burden of me being there full-time or smothering you. And yes I have been told I have a big and very nice cock, but you should probably find out for yourself instead of taking other peoples’ words for it.

I have been involved in these kinds of things for the past 15 years, so I am in this for the long haul. If you are reading this even a few years down the road and my account doesn’t say deleted then I am still interested in hearing from you. If you are a female of any age and what I wrote hits home with you then you are welcome to contact me with Chat or the “Send message” in Reddit, either one. Ultimately I prefer a different chat app, but this is fine for starting out.

Thank you for reading all of this. I look forward to hearing from you so we can see if your 1 plus my 1 is 3 or more.