Hello! I'm a 33yo cishet male dominant currently residing in Nova Scotia - though I'm not sure I want to stay here. I'm a quiet person, and meeting people has never come easily to me. Hopefully, the internet will help me overcome the barriers of social phobia once more!

In public life, I'm a part-time student slowly grinding my way through the educational system. You'd think I'd have been sick of it by the time I finished my BA but I kept going and plan to graduate with a JD in 2025. My current colleagues will miss me, and I (some of) them, but I won't miss working retail.

When I'm not in class, I play video games and tabletop RPGs. I also talk about these things to other people who like them. I enjoy listening to the Well There's Your Problem podcast, among others, and watching/listening to video essays on Youtube. I'd gotten into HEMA for a bit, longsword specifically.
Hoping to start back up again in the Spring. I'm not really a party person. 5'6" in the morning, white, husky build. Weight loss is an ongoing project that is on hold until Winter is over. ADHD/OCD

In terms of kink, I suppose I'm a bit of a pleasure dom. I'm big on dominance/submission play. I'd love a chance to get into rope bondage. I'm curious about free use and other kinds of 24/7 relationships but I'd really need to know the person and have talked about why we'd want that and how we'd make it work before I could say more on that front. I am not into more intense forms of pain play like whipping or caning. Not into blood/pee/etc. Please do not call me "daddy", thanks in advance.

I'm hoping to find someone else with the same streak of quiet ambition and determination inside. Someone who is intelligent, even if you'd rather fight a bear than admit it. You don't need to be experienced in kink relationships but it would help if you'd thought about what you'd like your ideal kinky relationship to look like and could explain it to me if I asked. I'd love someone where after we both got home from work we could disappear into our fantasy world together, or maybe just snuggle for a bit.

Physical preference in women is hit or miss for me . I'm demisexual, so I find it hard to say whether or not I'm attracted to someone based solely on appearance. I suppose I have kind of a thing for women with more slender builds but as long as you're in alright shape don't let it worry you.

That's all I can think to say, for now. You know where to find me if you're interested!