Hey all, I am a 29 year old Male looking for a submissive. I am currently looking only for an online BDSM relationship but may be open to meets in the future if we connect well. I have been in the BDSM community for a really long time now, and have had quite a bit of experience.

I wouldn't say I want a typical D/s relationship. While I like to be in control and dominant, and put you in your place, I also am caring, kind and understanding. I've found that I like showering my partner with affection and care outside the D/s play. I like taking care of her, complimenting her, and just being there for her. I also want to get to know you more outside of the D/s dynamic as it helps me in building a better bond and dominating you better. I want you to come to me first with any problem you have, want you to tell me about your day, your guilty pleasures, want to hear the song that you listen to on repeat again and again, want to celebrate with you when you nail a presentation at work, want to hear what your fears are and what brings you joy, want to hear your thoughts when you lay under the stars looking at them, I want someone who will fully open up to me, albeit slowly. I will in no way rush you or force you to but I want someone whole and vulnerable, just like me.

Also, D/s for me is not just about sex. It's also about improving you and me in other aspects of life. I will not interfere in your life goals, whether career or academic. It is about pushing us to be better in life and every possible area of it.

Mental health issues are something I have dealt with and so have many people I have met over time and I have huge understanding and empathy towards it. So don't be hesitant to open up about them with me.

I am also big into aftercare and love cuddles. It's a mixture of both the worlds and I think we could gauge each other more as we talk more and check our compatibility. Communication is something which is really important to me, so you know, don't shy away from communicating your needs at all. I'll be very open and communicate my needs clearly to you, and I expect you to do the same. I also won't push you into doing anything you don't want to and will always respect your wants and limits. Safewords are important to me so if you're someone who's not comfortable with them, this won't work.

On the non-sexual side, I have done my studies in Business and Entrepreneurship, and handle my own Business. I would say I am pretty sarcastic and funny, and love to make people laugh. I also am kind of a nerd in that I love reading lots and lots of books/mangas, love gaming, and watching movies and listening to music and what have you. I can hold up a conversation very well, and can talk about a plethora of topics, but if there is any topic I cannot, I always am open to learning more about new things. There is nothing sexier than a smart, intelligent woman after all. I also like cooking and can cook a great meal.

If you have any other questions or doubts, don't hesitate to ask. Hope to hear from you soon, cheers!