I am looking for that special, dominant someone. The person who I would enjoy waking up to every morning. Who I would smile thinking about as I brewed her morning coffee and made breakfast or cooked dinner for. Someone who is sweet and caring but also has a wickedly kinky side. Someone to go on adventures with and when we get back tie me up and have her way with me.

If that sounds like you and you are in your 20s-30s and in Reno,Tahoe or the surrounding areas, allow me to humbly introduce myself.

A bit about me, 34m with an established professional career designing and building things. I regularly work out and generally have my life in order. Interests range from active and outdoorsy, such as skiing, hiking, kayaking, camping, to the more social like dancing west coast swing to a bit more indoorsy solo pursuits of cinema and reading. I’m equally happy to be out in the world having some adventure one day and have a cozy (and hopefully kinky) day in with my Domme the next. I’m a bit of a nerd/geek and a voracious information sponge, so someone who can match that energy would be ideal.

In terms of presentation, I’m average height, masculine appearance, with a beard and blue eyes. I generally present as pretty masculine and dominant in the wider world, so things would probably work best if you are the type of Domme that finds it exciting to have the kind of guy you'd never know is submissive all under your control behind closed doors. Been known to make the occasion dad joke or pun. Plenty of experience following orders (message if you want details).

Happy to chat about and elaborate on all of this, but before revealing much more about my identity and vanilla life, I will want to make sure there is a rapport and will respectfully ask for verification.

When it comes to kink, power dynamics and mental domination are what drive my desire to submit. Whips, gags and bondage can be fun, but I find them most appealing as ways to further the power dynamics rather than things to do for their own sake. I’m fairly new to kink, and still figuring out where my limits and interests really are. I would potentially be interested as things develop in exploring chastity, CEI & pegging. Open to both a bedroom only or full time dynamic, at your pleasure. I want to serve and please my Domme, so if you don’t see your kinks listed, don’t hesitate to ask.

Hard Limits: findom, forced bi, sounding, scat, piss, blood

I have a preference for an in person relationship with someone local-ish, within a couple hours drive at the most. I wouldn’t entirely rule out online, but there would have to be something special and the possibility of meeting IRL. I’m looking to build a relationship and form a genuine connection and certainly not looking for anything of a transactional nature.

If you are interested, please drop me a chat request or DM and tell me a bit about yourself. I’m a big believer that there needs to be compatibility outside of the bedroom as well as inside, so please let me know about both your non-kinky and kinky sides when you message me.