Hello! My name is Sara, and I'm 29. I'm a sub from NJ. I weigh about 230 and stand at 5'5. I have light brown hair to about shoulder length, maybe more and dark brown eyes. I wear glasses and tend to wear more comfier clothes. I don't mind dressing up, but I worked my way through retail and lived alone for a while. So I tend to prefer more practical clothing. If I'm bending down and someone is seeing my underwear or ass/pussy while I'm trying to pick something up or build a shelf I won't be too happy, unless I'm home alone or only with my Dom. I only put on makeup when it's a special occasion, but I do have a lot of it if it is needed. I have a bunch of accessories, actually. I enjoy excuses to get to bring them out and use them.

Ideally, I'm looking for someone near me for a monogamous LTR BDSM relationship or friendships with people in the dynamic. Friendships I'm happy to take from anywhere and just chat. But to be a sub for a dom, I would only take in person. I'm happy to try and start with online within reason.

Outside of kink, I enjoy reading, music, puzzles, cooking, and playing video games. I'm a pretty big nerd on comic book movies, Harry Potter, Pokemon, and Digimon. I just recently finished Oppenheimer, the Percy Jackson show, and I started the new Acatar show. I frequently go out hiking/geocaching when the weather is nice. I am currently listening to the Good Omens book and reading the City of Glass series. I recently finished the Fourth Wing series and A Court of Thorns and Roses. I listen to mostly 80's rock or alternative music. My playlist has been described as headache inducing due to its sheer randomness. I am a huge foodie. I love trying new foods and attempting to recreate them. Recently, I have attempted to make hot chocolate bombs. I love creating interesting desserts, but I don't have much of a sweet tooth. I love spicy food too! My choice is always to make something spicy. Currently, I'm finishing Pokemon Legends of Arceus. Im determined to fully finish the game. Then, I plan on going back to my laptop and trying to find a new game to play every once in a while. I spend maybe 5 to 7 hours playing video games a week. I spend a lot of time with my family/friends, and I'm very close to them. I currently live with my family, too.

Kink wise, I enjoy bondage, orgasm control/denial, pet play, anal, rope play, role play, sensation play, pain play, and more. I have experience doing things to myself or following online directions. I have limited in person experience, though. I'm curious about DDLG, but I have no experience in that at all. My hard limits are scat, ass to mouth, blood, and permanent harm/damage. I do have a more comprehensive list of my kinks and limits as a google Doc, too. I also have plenty of fantasies I'd love to try too.

What I'm looking for: someone who is between the ages of 26 to 34, body type does not matter. Someone who is willing to work with a relatively unexperienced sub. Someone who is living nearby or willing to relocate. I am okay with starting online. I am too involved with my family to move far from them, though.

Thank you for taking the time to read this, and I look forward to getting to know you!

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