(More about me in my profile along with a few pics)
I am a m22 sub with actual experience submitting to women and couples.
This is a bit different than my usual posts.
I'm looking to start a bit of exploration, and am hoping to find a partner (or partners?) to help.
Before I tell you about what I'm interested in -
My goal is to create a safe space for you to explore and learn as well as have fun.
The reason I'm sharing my interests is not only to find someone interested in the same desires but also to hopefully open you to share your desires as well.
My biggest kink is being a people pleaser so be as selfish as you like ;)
Even if you are not a domme but are interested in this lifestyle and looking for someone to just explore kinks without any judgements or shaming. Reach out to me and lets explore this beautiful and complicated lifestyle together.
Broadly speaking, my interests currently fall in a couple of categories:
1) I would like to learn how to be better at giving pleasure:
- Exploratory touch - Fingers, brushes, feathers, just taking time to figure out what feels good.
- Massage - I mean, who doesn't like a good massage?? I certainly do, and I'd like to learn how to give a damn good one.
- Fingering - Apart from oral, I'd like to be good at pleasuring with my hands. This would involve looking into different techniques, thinking about sequencing to build anticipation, learning how to tease, etc. Ultimately, I would love to be able to edge someone, for her enjoyment as well as mine. But to do that, I need to be able to bring them to orgasm reliably. Alas, I lack the, uhh, necessary equipment to practice on, so... Help a guy out??
- Oral - Similar to above. I mean, to date, no one has given me any complaints or told me to do different. So I think I'm not terrible? But I can't help but feel not all eat pussy the same and I'd like mine to be better.
2) I would like to experience being used, sexually:
I like being used for someone's enjoyment.
- You rubbing yourself against my face. Heck, using any part of me to get off.
- Pillow Princess - You using my mouth (as opposed to me going down on you). Maybe eventually leading up to face sitting, or smothering me with your pussy and ass. Maybe with my hands restrained??
- Hanging out with my mouth on you while you are at your desk working, or watching TV, or reading
- Pegging/Anal Play - I have experience playing with myself but would love to experience someone pegging me
- Foot Worship/Trampling - foot fetish is apparently the most common fetish. This was probably what got me into this lifestyle. As well as being stepped on!!! Bonus: You get an endless supply of foot rubs, massages without even asking for it. Who knows maybe even pedicures ;)
- Being a Masochist - I have experienced this once but only briefly and would like to explore my pain tolerance.
3) I am curious about providing pain:
I've always considered myself solidly on the submissive/masochistic end of the D/s spectrum. But on rare occasion, I think about "the other side", particularly when it comes to inflicting pain. I find the thought stimulating. I'm not sure if this will translate into actual, real-life enjoyment, but I'd like to explore if it does.
You might be a good fit if:
- You enjoy the idea of a someone attempting to learn on/with you
- You enjoy giving instruction and direction
- You enjoy being watched/observed
- You enjoy exploration and experimenting and you are okay with not rushing towards orgasm.
- You enjoy the idea of using someone, and you are actually comfortable doing so. I do think there is a personality aspect to this.
- You want to meet regularly, and are able to do so.
I'm also open to activities which make you feel good which are not on this list. Let me know what you are thinking. :)
I am open to all ages, sizes, looks, kinks/fetishes.
It's not easy being open about this. I only require you to be bold enough to take the first step and reach out.
I am very open-minded -- Even if we are not into the same things, I try to listen and understand, and not judge. Above all else, I try to treat people with kindness and respect. I expect the same in return.