Disclaimer: Very long post ahead, apologies but i'm not into curvy ladies, women above 40ths, non-binary genders, people with scarce communication, low effort people, giving up at the first difficulty, ghosting, in a relationship or other dynamics, if you not ok in sharing SFW pics pretty early, if you wont verify, you don't understand that to build mental connection is a two sided way, and you won't put effort into knowing me. If you fall under this category, move on, wish you the best and to find what you're looking for along with find much happiness.

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Hello there, i'm a straight male dom with over two years of experience in the online dynamics, having a flexible job, and kinda a no lifer after relocating years ago, i've accumulated an unhealthy amount of playtime online, that could be equal to many more years of someone playing casually, we could say i'm much more experienced than what is reasonable to believe.

I'm saying this for two reasons:
1)I'm high demanding and expect you to be committed
2)I've made treasure of my past experiences, especially the long lasting ones, and perfectly figured out what i'm looking for.

Basically, i want to be obsessed with you, so you should be ready to have a stalker in your life. I'm also jealous and possessive. To be obsessed with you, you have to be moderately attractive, i have non conventional standards of beauty, so i'm not into main streams canons, as long you're charming, sensual, in decent shape and not wearing a bag as dress, you should do, your mind is what i want to be intrigued more with, but a decent balance between mind and body is essential.

Now that i've successfully drove away the majority of sane women, for the remaining ones;
Being lewd, kinky, sexting, getting pics, videos, audios, voice calls, cam and such is nice when you're horny, but then, when you start to feel like you play with a dummy you have no emotions or feeling for, saying "yes master" and no much more, become boring quickly, i'm definitely not looking for a brat, i could manage to handle a not too rebellious one, but if playing with you becomes a mixture between a fucking jedi mental battle in making you want to be a good sub/girl for me and paint your face with fear, to make you afraid of what will be happening if you don't stop, and everything becomes a struggle or a constant mumbling, is not fun.

In the same way, i'm not looking for a dummy either that will always say yes Sir or is a limit/i'm at limit Sir. I want to feel your emotions, tell me you're afraid of what is going to be of you if i keep going like this, don't make me carve the words out of your mouth, constantly asking how something made you feel physically or mentally, tease me, tell me you're dying with anticipation, that i'm going too hard on you and to have mercy, challenge me, (which has nothing to to with being bratty), beg me to cum or for more teasing.

I'm not a misogynist or a sadist, even if i may make you do very dense things (assuming you'll enjoy) i kinda tend to laugh about it and think what dumb \*** you're*, but in a affectionated way.

One of my most marvelous experience, was finally voice calling with a long term sub, and find out she was also laughing and smiling no matter the abuse i delivered on her (which included also things like figging) and that felt so good, because we both were enjoying and laughing about things we did together, having fun together, like it should be, even if it may take some darker twisted turns.
If you're looking for someone who is truly evil, have pleasure in inflicting physical or mental pain, i'm not the one right for you. I can be very mean tho.

I find kinks like degradation, humiliation, pain and impact play hot and enjoyable, when i know they make you aroused, that you're actually getting turned on and enjoying them. If is something you do even making you discomfortable or feeling bad about it, just to please me, is not my thing, remember this, because it will applies also to more hardcore things i'll mention later on.

Ok, sounds great, where is the mental connection?

Let me begin with, i want to have an actual friendship or platonic romance outside of the dynamic. Which also means, you'll be yourself, you won't be my sub/kity/little girl anymore. I want to be able to appreciate you and respect you for the person you truly are, and in the same way, i would like you to be genuinely interested and curious about me and my life, being caring, affectionate, trustworthy, loyal, genuine, passionate and why not also sweet.

As the dynamic will progress, getting outside of your role, might become harder, for various reasons, still, i want to be able to have a conversation even if i'm making you edge while you're drinking your morning coffee and things along those lines.

Hopefully, i've summed up nicely the kind of dom i'm and what i'm expecting from you, but i'll get back there later on in a more detailed way, for now, i think is only fair talk a bit of myself, as i would love if you'll be also a little obsessed with me, a thing i forget to mention, is that mental connection and platonic desire, fuels my dominant side a lot. So be aware you might get ruined 10 times more than a random dummy around the net.

I do struggle in telling about myself, because i've lived a very intense life from 16 to 25 and sum it up without writing almost a biography is very difficult.

Anyway, i was an attention whore who was used to hang out with many different kind of people, from wealthy, to thugs, to alternatives and common folks, i've always been the pack leader kind, besides with the thugs haha, i've been also a drummer, for 9 years, and slowly started to give up on most of the people besides the alternative/metal scene, where i was also well known and spoiled like a little diva, since i was playing in multiple bands, getting free entry and free open bar or don't get kicked out if i was throwing up in the toilet sinks since i was used to know the owners.

I quickly got addicted in being treated like this, along with alcohol, shady business, many things i'm not proud of, a passed away friend, various dramas and a sea of shit, i quickly realized i won't be long lasting keep going like this, and on top of that, even if i had much, a job, house alone, decent income, many people around, i was never happy and always wanted for more, which leaded to a self destructive path.

After the redflags, an ongoing introspection since i was young, along with constantly questioning myself, i've decided to change my life for good, i've always loved nature and hiking, i was in the scout when i was young, i lived in a camping for 6 months, along with school trips and vacation and another bunch of meaningful experience that would require the sequel of my biography. That, mixed with the feeling i never liked our society, nor felt oke with it, mostly the reason of many of my troubles, i've decided to relocate in a small mountain town, not too far from the big city i'm born, and since then, i'm enjoying a slow, peaceful life surrounded by nature. (That i would gladly share the pictures with you).

I've left my old self behind, cutted most of bridges with people, and started again.

Since then, i've been focussing more on my nerd and nature lover side, didn't get along too well with people here even if i have a job in the town, too closed minded mentality and they don't see well foreigners, but other than that, i'd say i'm much more happier today than what i was used to be in city, now is 5 years i'm here.

I'm not a religious person altho i believe in god, but not in a religious way, for me is energy and cosmical intelligence, i have a very strong spiritual side, i believe life is just a chapter, that the whole universe is connected, i don't believe the thin balance making the life on earth possible is just a case, i think about things like the suns are individual or collective pure souls, which sole purpose is to pierce through darkness, in the same way, black holes are dark souls whose only desire is to devour the light and any life form. I think the unicity of the human kind lies in his conflicted nature, carrying with us light and darkness, making us the only living beings able to find balance between the two, and eventually with our experiences, help the universe evolve in a new stage of existence, where the eternal conflict between light and darkness will cease, finally finding harmony. Which practically could translate in a more static and ordered universe, not seeing anymore entire galaxies swallowed by a black holes, only to slowly reborn from their own dust, leading to the infinite cycle.

I have also a soft spot for heroes becoming villains, Anakin Skywalker is the perfect example long with Sauron and Arthas Menethil.

My hobbies:
We could say, videogames, anime, tv series, fantasy books, music, nature and hiking are my hobbies.

My fave moves are: Matrix, LoTR, Jurassic park, Start wars, Alien, V for vendetta, Kill bill, Resident evil, Knowing, The Day the Earth Stood Still, Fifth element, Blade Runner, War of the Worlds, Blade, Underworld.
(not in a specific order, might have miss some)

My fave series: Game of thrones, Breaking bad, Better call saul, Altered carbon, Alice in borderland, The walking dead, Vikings, Stranger things, Sons of anarchy, Battle star galattica, Terminator sarah connor chronicles, Big bang theory, Young sheldon, Shameless, Into the badlands, Falling skies.
(not in a specific order, might have miss some)

My fave animes: Ghost in the Shell, Sousei no aquarion, Wolfs rain, Ergo Proxy, Full metal alchemist, Shangrila frontier, Overlord, Danmachi, Mushoku tensei, Shingeki no kyojin, The rising of the shield hero, Call of the night, Gokushufudō (please i want to be him so bad) Bleach, Naruto, Fairty tail, Eden zero, Frieren beyond journey's end, Cyberpunk edgerunners, Lupin III.(Even if not exactly, anime, enjoyed also Castelvania and Captain laserhawk blood dragon remix)
(not in a specific order, might have miss some)

My fave videogames: Final fantasy VII, VIII, X, Resident evil, Dead space, Monster hunter, Darkest dungeon, Tomb Raider, Deus Ex, Cyberpunk 2077, Metal gear, Oddworld, Battle chasers night wars, Dark souls, Elden ring, Dark siders, Devil may cry, Kingdoms of amalur reckoning, Kingdom hearts, Pokèmon, Bravely default, honorable mention to World of warcraft.
(not in a specific order, might have miss some)

Books: Malazan book of the fallen, The witcher saga.(Yeah, not big reader, i prefer interactive stories, but i've also read a bunch of books from writers of my country that never got translated in other languages, when i'm in the mood i love reading tho).

My music tastes: I love Original Sound Tracks (OST), I love to listen from Symphonic orchestra to progressive melodic death metal.

Bands honorable mentions: Atreyu, Alesana, Escape the fate, Trivium, System of a down, Linkin park, Wolf Hoffmann, Metallica, Two steps from hell.

OST honorable mentions: LOTR, Sousei no aquarion, Navras (by juno reactor, matrix), Naruto, Bleach, FFVIII&XRecently also got into dark techno / cyberpunk style electronic music

I've mentioned all of this, since i'm looking for a platonic thing, it would be nice if you share interest with me, but even more a similar vision of the world or maybe life path, or you simply find it intriguing.

Now closing this chapter, we can move into more spicy arguments.

My kinks are:
TPE, Clit, Nipples Torture, Denial, Overstimulation, Forced cum, Humilation, Degradation, Impact play, Pain, Bladder control, Deep throat, Anal, Stretching/Gaping (both holes), Bodyfluids (mostly pussy moisture and squirting) Item insertion (house hold stuff), Corruption, Enema, Pet play, CNC, Breeding, Cockworship, Ovipositioning, Watersports, DDLG. Got a huge fetish for dirty panties.

Limits:
Scat, Toilet related play, Extreme violence, Gore, Permanent things, Blood, Social suicide, Bimbofication.(I love perfect imperfection, so anything fake including beauty surgery is directly against my moral values and is an hard limit. Tulips are better).

My perfect archetype of a sub would be, a little that wants to be a good girl for daddy (altho i might be Sir or Master, once the title is earned, while we play, and be your daddy outside of the playtime, for sure i'm not soft or daddy dom or caregiver type, i like the little who loves to be abused and then cuddling together), also a kitty, as i might have plans to make you live closely like one, so a "little kitty" would be ideal, "good" would be also be ideal, as like i mentioned above, i can handle a not too rebellious brat, but nothing beyond that line, let's say, that you could take the brat out a few times during a single play session, but if every tasks takes 20 mins arguing why you should do something or the reasons why you would regret it if you don't, is not my thing.

Also putting emphasis on what i wrote above about yes sir, or is a limit sir, be playful even as sub.

The main characteristic i'm looking in a sub are (deal breakers):

• Being able to chat during the day
• Being able to perform discrete tasks at work
• Being able to perform discrete public play tasks
• Open to have daily and weekly rules
• Open to have life quality reduction rules, even if for short periods
• Open to edge multiple times a day, even on your own
• Open to be denied (my longest sub denial was 58 days, i'm cool even make you cum 2-3 times per week, but if you need to cum everyday sorr! I'm still willing to train you and start slowly)
• Always giving me the good morning and the good night as first/last thing you do
• Always keep me updated about your schedule (including this like, you telling me you just got home from work, you're going out with friends, etc, always keep me aware).
• I'm expecting you to put me very high on your priorities list
• Once there will be trust and connection, open to give up on your free time, i'll be reasonable tho if you want time for yourself tho, but still i have the power to decide. (This does not include things like vacations, visiting your parents, hanging out with friends, gym, your hobbies and similar)
• Once there will be trust and connection, i'm expecting you to be oke with NSFW Pics, Videos, Voice calls, Voice notes. (never pushy, nor in rush, will never randomly ask during playtime without discuss it before hand outside of playtime, and won't ever be the main thing making you my personal content creator). Would appreciate voice notes pretty early, not a deal breaker tho.
• Be each others exclusives

Nice additions (non deal breakers):

• Outfit control
• Expendable income to buy toys and outfits i may ask you (within reason...)
• Have remote control toys
• Open to send me your dirty panties (Once in awhile, maybe even just once, i'll cover the costs).
• Open to play on cam
• Open let me decide your hair cut, color, private trimming, could be reasonable and decide together
• Let me decide your nail paint make up, and small things like that

If we want to do something "fun" i can setup a point system where you can buy rewards with each daily/weekly task completed, it might be cumming, have more time for yourself, or more specific things once the dynamic is established.

The large majority of the things i've mentioned, i expect them once there will be trust and connection, eventually later on in the dynamic, i did put emphasis on that about pics videos and such, but it applies to most of the things really.

If you made it this far i'm already impressed, i'm not in rush to get into kinky stuff, i'd like us to talk and build a genuine connection first, the desire and the rest of the things will come spontaneously. I won't act like if you're my sub until we get into the dynamic, and even there before we both agree to be each other exclusive, there will be a sort of "trial" period, only then we can truly claim to belong to each others and quit other dynamics or casual play partners, even if we should still be each others priority from the start.

If you truly got intrigued and would like to apply to get know each other better, please introduce yourself with a nice presentation putting effort and telling me why you want me as dom, and what piqued your interest.

If looks are a deal breaker for you, make sure to include a SFW picture and i'll send you one back right away. Otherwise sending a SFW pic is highly encouraged but not necessary until feels like we're a good match and worth sending.

See you on the other side, for everyone else, be well :)