I am a very happily married dom, slightly leaning switch, studying sexuality. I believe our collective society's shitty understanding and lack of acceptance of sexuality is a major contributing factor to global problems. I have invested my entire life into understanding people, starting with the individual.

My achievements, which will become evident if you get to know me personally: - practically no insecurities; at least, I'm not aware of them anymore, suggesting only tiny ones remain. - I don't lie. I used to, and a lot. I simply despise it now, so you will never lie to me. We lie because we fear. - I minimized my fears, and am still working on highly complex, uniquely personal ones. - I went for many years without sex, a conscious effort. I didn't ask for it, but am not an "incel" - it was voluntary. Learned a ton this way, however. (And different women have told me I'm one of the most handsome men they've met, so it's not about looks/options. It was actually about duty.)

These are just relevant achievements I want you to be aware of. I value honesty, integrity, honour, actions driven by empathy, and sexuality. If you fit the below criteria and want to become a happier, sluttier version of you, keep reading.

Men need to respect and acknowledge that not all women are born to be dominated. I do, because most male stereotypes are idiotic. I've been victim of some of them, as has almost every male I've known closely. And being ex-military and a natural warrior, I've known very tough, honourable men.

Here, I am interested in young women (19 ) who... - dream of submitting to men, serving men, pleasing men. - want to be the center of male attention. - want to have zero control. - want to experience absolute trust. - aren't too afraid to be sexually broken in the process, and forced to cum as much as the master desires.

More than anything in this world, I love nature. I mean our planet, yes, but only parts that are suitable for humans. (So, not the inside of a volcano, for example.) Likewise, I love human nature, as long as it's healthy. Here, you are learning a bit about mine. I want to learn yours much more intimately, so I can learn from helping you become happier.

With me, you will feel safe and you will be safe. Every girlfriend has said this to me, so it's not my opinion at all. I'm also an expert in security, so you talking to me and dealing with me means you trust me to keep you safe. (After you get to know me, of course.)

The younger you are, the better. This is simply because (imho) it's easier to soothe and guide a person who hasn't been too beat up by life yet, and that's likely to be someone younger.

Ideally, you are... - 19-30 - up to 5'6 (I am 5'9, and prefer shorter girls) - have pretty eyes (I do, and get constantly complimented... But sexy eyes are also a superficial passion of mine, probably a lie we tell ourselves to make us think "beautiful eyes means beautiful soul.") - fit and hot. Btw, if guys try to pick you up, you're hot.

If you think you used to be hot but aren't anymore, and want to lose weight, I'll consider being your drill sergeant. I will not fuck you until you get fit, and I'll happily punish you as needed. Having a fit body means you are potentially useful in an emergency - a survivor. This is sexy. Our society is presently undergoing a downward (negative) wave of logic where "everyone is accepted," which facilitates weakness, such as laziness - lack of discipline. The average man I see on the street is a useless whimp, who couldn't (and probably wouldn't even try to) defend his woman from an assault. Except by throwing his donut at the attackers, maybe. I judge hetero men, yes. I'm stronger than most of them, and am disgusted by much of my gender's population, so I say I have a right to judge. Be brave, and find your own parallels in your gender. Don't accept the lowest common denominator society offers you. Each of us living in relative comfort in this world has a responsibility to be the best version of ourselves, for the benefit of all.

Back to you and me...

We will not fuck right away - I'm not looking for that. I want to get to know you first, so we will pseudo-date first, with the understanding of what our relationship is. My wife is not just a slut, but also a whore, and is totally comfortable with this. Hell, you might even meet her some day, though unlikely. I will be your older brother, mentor, master, and prep you for better relationships, while saving you time and heartache with inadequate or negative, toxic relationships. I will give you stability and a clarity, and you will know I care about you like a little sister.

Remember your place, show respect always, obey. Be truthful, open, vulnerable, obedient, and I will improve your life as much as possible. I want such people to be happy, and there are deserving men out there who would be overjoyed to permanently collar you.

Oh yeah, with me, you will have a collar. And a leash. And an outfit.

I'm into - commands (positions during sex, not tasks, except for fitness purposes) - orgasm control. You don't decide how much you cum - men do. - overstimulation - restraints, but only functional. Nothing "exotic". - humility, such as forcing you to beg for mercy (eventually). - remote-control stimulation. - aggression, but never destructive. I will NOT scar you in any way, including emotionally. That's a deal breaker. - honest humiliation, leading to humility. I will call you names that you deserve - not "stupid, worthless cow." If a man thinks he's deserving of a certain woman, then what would use of such a label say about the one who gives it? He chose to take her, so he found her suitable for him, personally, did he not? Weak.

I can write a book here, but you should have the idea already.

Feel free to send me pics, but no nudes. Yeah, I said it. Never send nudes online. I want to see mainly your face, but am happy to wait a bit to meet up for a drink/coffee instead. All this means little until that happens.

Neither of us wants to waste time, so establishing appearance compatibility early on is important. If you like intimidating, fighter-type male physique, we're good. Warning: I tend to look quite tired these days, cause my soul bleeds for our world daily. (No need to pity me.) Address me as "Sir" to show me you've (probably) read everything to the end, and tell me about you, like a short cover letter. I'm not here to just answer your questions. I'm hunting for hot sluts to mold, so tell me why you are my potential prey.

I will respond to every young woman who obeys the guidance outlined in this text.