Hi bdsmpersonals :) I'm here looking for an unusual and specific dynamic/relationship, and to see if anyone out there wants the same. This is going to be a long one, so sit comfortably and buckle up.
I'm a Primal Dom, Canadian, living about half the year in Montreal and the other half in the forests of Ontario. I know what I'm looking for will likely be hard to find, so I'm open to anywhere in the world to begin with, and one of us eventually relocating. Also, if you're looking for something even kind of similar to what I'm describing, please still feel free to message. I'd rather have a real person with their own preferences than someone who conforms exactly to mine.
I'm looking for a real long term relationship - I'm not even in a hurry to get to something sexual. I'm here looking on bdsmpersonals because I want to start from knowing we have the same tastes when we get to that point, rather than becoming invested in someone only to find that we're not compatible.
I have a lot of kinks, all leaning to dominant and sadistic, but what I love the most is being primal. I want to be able to shut off the rational human side of my brain, and be fully animalistic, and I want you to do the same.
I don't want someone who will always submit easily and do as they're told. I want to have to pin your arms to stop from being scratched, or hold to hold your head down to keep you from biting me. I want to slap you, choke you, and fuck you into submission while you try to do the same to me. I want you to be trying to dominate me as much as I am you, and I'll only come out on top as long as I'm stronger. I want us to be two wild animals struggling for domimance - not predator and prey, but two predators.
That said, I don't necessarily always want to be rough, and I also enjoy gentle aspects of primal like nuzzling while cuddling. And I also like other forms of bdsm - there's very little I won't at least try once.
Outside of sex, I'm very relaxed and easy going most if the time. I have a huge variety of interests and hobbies, but if you like heavy music, the outdoors, and dark humor we'll probably get along very well.
Aside from that, I'm an artist and a musician, somewhat spiritual, somewhat nerdy, very left wing. I've travelled around the world a few times, and hope to do it again. Always looking for new adventures, and trying and learning new things. One thing I value possibly the most in a partner is curiosity.
Long term goals, I'd like to eventually buy some land and live off grid, maybe even start a sort of community. I don't want children any time soon, but perhaps eventually, or if we get past that age, I'd be open to adopting some day if we're stable and in a good position to take responsibility for a small human.
Physically, I'm six feet tall(182cm), dark curly hair which I'm currently growing long, blue eyes, and bearded. Quite hairy, and tattooed. Metal/punk style, but not too extreme with it. In fairly good shape, at about 180 lbs(80 kg). My only strong physical preference for a partner would be to be somewhat in shape, and to not currently have a penis. And I do have quite a weakness for tattoos and other body mods.
If you read through all of this and you're still here, then I hope to hear from you soon! Tell me a bit about yourself, and ask anything you like about me. I'd prefer to exchange photos as soon as possible, and I'm open to voice or video chatting. If we like each other I'd like to meet in person before too long, depending on distance and logistics.
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