I've been between submissives for a while now, and so far, the biggest problem has been, I just can't seem to find anyone who's on the same wavelength. I'll be the first to admit that I've always been a bit of a misfit, but I've met plenty of women in the past who get me, so I know it's not impossible.

Before I get into that, I'll go over what you can expect from me as a dominant. I generally prefer pleasure over pain, and praise over degradation. I enjoy teasing, edging, orgasm control, etc. I like seeing how desperate I can make a sub before letting her come. I enjoy free use, sleep play, generally having unfettered access to my sub's body. I also have a major breeding kink. Aside from that, I'm pretty flexible, and tend to adapt my methods to fit my partner's kinks, within my limits. One of my biggest turn-ons is my partner's arousal and pleasure, or perhaps more accurately, the sense of power that comes from causing those feelings. On the flipside, I also like being surprised now and then, so I like a sub that can take the initiative, and do things to pleasure me even when they haven't been ordered to. I love being adored and worshiped by a partner. It's also a huge plus if you're good at talking dirty. Here's a list of my kinks, for reference.

Now, to circle back to me being an oddball, it all comes down to my interests. I've gone over my interests in previous posts, and I think this time, it might be better to focus more on what I'm not into (it's a much shorter list, anyway). You see, I love nothing more than long, interesting conversations with a partner, and that requires a certain amount of commonality. However, even with "nerd culture" becoming part of the mainstream, a fair number of my interests remain pretty niche, and a lot of what's hip and modern just doesn't resonate with me. I hate social media, I've hated it since it first came out. I'm almost never on my phone. I don't really watch reality shows (not for any moral reason, they just aren't my thing outside of a few exceptions). I don't like hiking or camping (I've done both and enjoyed neither). And for all the weird sports trivia that lives in my head, I don't really have any particular interest in the sports themselves. Instead, I like old movies, and pen-and-paper roleplaying games, and classic sitcoms, obscure video games, live theater. I hate modern pop and country music, but love damn near everything else. So, I guess I'm looking for someone who, like me, is a bit out of step with the current generation, or who gravitates towards weird or obscure topics. The Morticia to my Gomez, you could say (hell, "goth stuff" does fall mostly within my interests, even if they're only one part of them).

As for the usual boilerplate issues, I'm looking for someone between the ages of 25-35, single, wants kids (but preferably doesn't have any yet), is tobacco-free, and is politically left-wing.

If you've read all this (and possibly some of my other posts on the subreddit) and are interested in me, feel free to shoot me a message or chat request, and we can get to know each other. Thanks for reading, and have a lovely day.