I'm looking for an inexperienced Sub willing to gradually hand over control and engange in a longterm d/s-relationship to further explore their submissive side and kinks. We can start out online, but in the long run I want to meet you in person.
When it comes to me as a Dom, I'm on the softer side of things and prefer a gentle and caring approach. This doesn't mean that I can't be strict or that I shy away from punishment or stuff like impact play though; I'm just using encouragement and praising way more than humiliation and degredation. I also value discipline and'll work towards it, if I find it lacking.
Of course all of this will require a great deal of building trust along the way and getting to know each other better. So I want to learn about you outside the kink-context, too - especially because I'm interested in finding out what makes you tick and how to push your buttons. Also I don't mind people who are more on the clingy/chatty side, since I don't want to be the only one starting conversations/keeping them alive and hopefully we have some other things in common that we could engage in together as well.
I'm currently living in an open D/S-relationship with a sub (F) from the asexual spectrum who knows of and in fact even suggested parts of this. This doesn't mean I'm emotionally unavailable though.
About me:
34M, 1.86m (6'1"), average build.
Kinks:
A few general examples: Anal, big toys, bondage (incl. shibari), deep throat, fisting, free use, impact play, orgasm-control, pet-play, roleplay... I'm generally into a lot of things and love to explore new ones, so just let me know what you're into (I don't kink-shame, so don't hold back).
Limits:
Extreme violence, feeding, lasting injuries, scat, diapers, you get the gist.
I'm looking for:
What I'm looking for deviates a bit depending on gender, so I split it in M and F where applicable - if you (feel like you) don't belong to either one, pick whatever resonates most with you.
Age:
18 (obviously)
F: Shouldn't matter too much, I'm probably fine with it.
M: Up to my age.
Looks:
General No-Gos are poor hygiene, body hair (aside from small exceptions) and being morbidly obese. It mainly depends on whether it just "clicks" for me.
Kinks:
Surprise me.
M: You should be into feminization/sissyfication.