Hello fellow kinksters, kink enthusiasts, kink curious folk or fellow deviants! I'm Prof, I'm a 31 year old Indian Dominant seeking his forever person. As the title suggests, I'm here in the hopes of finding that one person with whom life becomes easier, more fulfilling and cherished (yes, I'm delusional/hopelessly optimistic) There are a few things that people have found reason enough not to move things beyond that initial conversation with me, I'll get them out of the way. 1. I'm not very tall, I'm 5'9. 2. I'm not muscular, I'm slightly heavy. 3. I have hereditary eczema which, while not a big deal, has led to me having thinning hair. 4. I smoke, a habit I'm kicking actively but something that is still a part of my life.

Some good things about me 1. You'll never be bored, I'm a man with varying interests and you can talk to me about anything 2. I'm emotionally available, to the point where I'm the person my friends reach out to for support or advice. You'll always have a hug loaded and a cheerleader in your corner. 3. I'm an academic with a PhD (well, almost). I love to learn, I enjoy being in a caregiver/nurturer role at work as well as out of it. 4. I'm active and responsive, I don't ghost people and I do make time for my person. 5. I love to cook, always here to share a recipe or feed you something delicious 6. I'm experienced in the lifestyle, I have a decade under the belt, the longest dynamic being 5 years. 7. I'm respectful and understanding. Life can get hectic, I know we all have certain responsibilities outside of the dynamic and I'm someone who enjoys being of help, if I can. If not, I'm more than happy to let you deal with life and reach out when you can. 8. I write (kinda well)

What you should be (non-negotiables) 1. Single and unattached 2. Monogamous 3. Patient 4. Loyal 5. Looking for something serious (while it's okay to see where things go and I don't expect you to get serious overnight, I'm not up for the idea of talking to someone who is looking for something strictly casual) 6. Able to communicate well

Some bonuses, not essentials 1. I love a girl with long hair 2. Between 23-33 (I'm open to a few years here and there if the person is the right one) 3. From South India (while I'm open to travel and relocate for the right person) 4. Driven and motivated 5. Loves board games

I understand that a dynamic is built on trust, understanding, honesty, loyalty and communication. I did not go into kinks as there are a lot of them and they come after personality in my list of priorities, I'm sure we will get into them as time goes by. I do not expect to call you petnames, nor be called them anytime soon. Let's build something beautiful?