Hello everyone, I hope your day has been going well. So first and foremost I’d like to preface with that I’m an 18 year old girl. I am unsure and not very experienced in the world of bdsm and I hope you to be understanding of this. While I have had sexual encounters before I am just trying to expand my horizons in terms of kink. I can go more into detail about what I think I’m into/what I am into as we chat. I do find myself to be the brat/sub type but I really am not looking for a reckless, angry man who calls himself a dom just as a means of wanting to control women. I want to be able to feel mentally stimulated and enamored by my Dom, through the attention he gives me and the guidance he provides. I’d like someone who can learn to dote and adore over me but also flip that switch whenever I need to be disciplined.
On that note I do value if my Dom is academically invigorating. Someone who loves to learn and knows much about the world around them. I myself am going into a STEM major this fall, I’d love to tell you more about that if we get to talking. If you’re actually reading this tell me if you have any pets in your response. On another note, I understand especially if you’re older and have a career job you won’t be able to talk to me often or consistently throughout the day, but I do need your attention. I want to send you pictures of my day and hear about yours. I want to know who made you upset today and how your lunch was. And then I want to hear about all the horrible things you need me to do to make it all better.
But that side of myself is reserved for if I think I can become comfortable with you. I’m looking for something shortish term for now, as I’m not really sure how this would look like long term yet. I don’t mind the idea of meeting eventually through our relationship, but not yet. If you’re a little bit closer that would be preferred. I really just value your conversation and pretty words.
And this part might be a little off putting, especially if you’re just looking for an easy sub to just send you nudes. That’s not me, so maybe I’m not the person for you. I need to be mentally controlled in a sense. I want you to devour my thoughts and tell me what to think. I want you to care about how I am, who I’m with. I want you to be possessive of me and hate the idea of me with anyone else. When I’m with you I want to be with you entirely and that looks like me giving up my mind to you.
Also this part isn’t a deal breaker but if you’re on the taller side I’d appreciate it a lot. I’m 5’10 and pretty active so I’d like to feel overpowered by my dom physically. If you’re around my height and still think you can take me feel free to reach out!
I’m not entirely sure what my desires would look like in practice but if you’re someone who thinks they’d like to inquire I’d love to have a chat.
If you dm me;
- I’d like a picture, I find mutual attraction to be important. If you do not include a picture I will not be responding. This can be a scary process so id like to see who I’m talking to.
- I want to know why you think I’d be good for you! What enticed you about my post?
- Please ask any questions you have or any concerns. I promise I’m nice I’m just trying to be cautious.
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