-Picture this-

We are at dinner together and we are waiting for our food. We are the best dressed in the room - you’re in a dress that hugs your curves and high heels so elegant that make men stare and women gawk with envy. Little does everyone in the restaurant know, I’m in a vibrating butt-plug, your panties, and your stockings that you laid out for me to wear for the night underneath my trousers. Periodically, before we receive our dinner, you turn the remote-controlled plug on and off through the app on your phone jolting me when I don’t expect it for your amusement. After we order, you hand me a gift. This is my first night not in my chastity cage in 8 weeks and you’ve lead me on all night to believe that the night will end in sex for me serving you and being so well behaved. In the box though, I see there is a micro cage, even smaller than my last chastity cage. You instruct me that we won’t be sleeping together and that I have 5 minutes to go to the restroom to put it on. If I am back in 5 minutes, you tell me that I’ll be rewarded and that you have an extra-large surprise for me when we get home. The server comes to the table and drops off my steak that I ordered while I’m in the restroom struggling to get the cage on. I come back to the table and realize that it’s well-done but I ordered medium. My introverted self says I’m not going to say anything but you immediately flag down the waiter and tell him to make me a new one. This is the kind of energy I’m looking for in both a dominant and partner.

One of the takeaways of that story is I am an INTJ. I’d love to meet kinky people at munches but it’s hard for me to come out of my comfort zone - this is one of the things I’m looking for in a dominant; someone who will push me out of my comfort zone (especially to further my submission). So I find myself posting here looking for a dominant. Vanilla dating apps are nice but if I have to go on one more date with someone who doesn’t know what they want, I think I might melt like the Wicked Witch of the West. I also a appreciate a femme dominant that likes a submissive that explores their femme energy :)

I’m a 6ft, athletic build, therapized human. I struggle with anxiety (don’t we all??). I take dance lessons (ask me what kind), practice hot yoga weekly, and run (yes, I sometimes hate myself - iykyk). My job is fully remote and I’d ideally either like you to come to me or travel to relatively soon. As much as I love communicating over a phone, I’m not great at checking it :,).

You def don’t have to be into all of these kinks (I’m not looking for a kink dispenser) but these are my kinks: latex, bondage, service submission, cuntalingus, feminization, breatheplay, chastity, pegging, body worship, and more. I’m the kind of human that gets really into what you like :) Honestly if you’re not kinky but willing to explore, I’ll take it!

I’d def prefer you to be within the ages of 22-45 so we have common ground when interacting though that’s not a hard limit. Also prefer you have a relatively active lifestyle. Also, hoping you to be in the continental US but also not a hard limit. Trans women are also welcome.

If you’re interested and want to see what I look like, reach out for a photo or send me a little bit of info about yourself and where you are located! Looking forward to chatting :)