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Hello there, hope this post find you well. I'm a 31 YO straight male experienced Dom.
After over two years of online dynamics, some more casual others long lasting, i'm searching for a sub to be my exclusive and focus my time and energy on her.
Ideally you're EU or similar time,is not an hard limit and willing to make it work for the right person.
With all due respect, not into plus sized ladies. Aplogies.
The person i'm looking for:
You're loyal, mentally and emotionally mature, with a good communication, not ending up ghosting and disappearing. If something in your life changes is fine, just part our ways in a civil manner and wish each other the best.
- AFAB - Cisgender. (deal breaker)
- Between 18 and 35 (deal breaker)
- Willing to verify (deal breaker)
- Ideally you're comfortable with sending voice notes, willing to wait for trust if you're shy (deal breaker)
- With time and trust, you'll be comfortable in voice calling, sending pics and videos. I'll never be pushy about this, i won't ask randomly while we play killing the mood. But once the dynamic is going for a while, i might approach it outside of the playtime, and i'll never use you like my personal content creator. (deal breaker)
- Willing to follow daily rules, i'll propose them, and we agree together if they're reasonable to follow on long term and considering your life obligations. If your schedule will change, we can go over it again. (deal breaker)
- You must be able to play at least 3-4 per week. Usually at least going for one hour. I'm used to long and intense sessions going also for 3-4 hours, so the more the merrier. (deal breaker) (If the dynamic is going well and we want some quick fun on top of everything else, that's fine).
- 24/7 Dynamic. You don't cum without permission. You don't play with urself if not agreed through daily rules, random tasks, or playtime. You would belong to me. (deal breaker)
- I want to get some updates from you daily, at least 3-4 times, might be you tell me about you're following rules/tasks, an heads up about your schedule and things like that, but in 2024 in the internet era anything below this is not acceptable. (deal breaker)
- Not in a relationship or marriage. This is due to denial and orgasm control, since they conflict, not for other reasons. We could have a middle ground on this if you partner have fun with you but not make you cum. (semi-dealbreaker).
Ok now, those would be nice plus but not deal breakers:
-Able to chat consistently during the day and eventually perform tasks
-Discrete play at work
-Discrete public play in general
-Have remote control toys
-Willing to give up on your free time outside of the bedroom aspect (watch a movie, serie, read a book just to please me and become closer to my ideal vision of a perfect sub).
About me as dom:
I'm not a sadist or a misogynist. I don't like you to feel uncomfortable or do things you dislike to please me. That makes me feel abusive and would break the trust and end the dynamic.
I like pain, when you find it arousing, i could be very rough, ruthless and i like to push you to your limit. Same goes for humiliation and degradation kinks.
I will always respect you for the person you're, i'm open also to get know us each other better, or keep it entirely kinky, if you want to become sort of FWB, i enjoy have even non kinky conversations.
Communication, trust, feel safe, being able to dive in your subspace, are fundamental for me, and i'll never do anything that may put those at risk, but it need to be both ways as i need you to be always open and honest about how you feel.
To summ it up, this is enjoyable for me because it is for you, else is not.
Among my biggest kinks there is edging and denial, i love needy girls, almost desperate, i love that when you're denied and horny you're more willing to push your non-hard boundaries. I love the idea of you being wet all day. I love to corrupt your mind and body with pleasure, becoming always more depraved.
My kinks and limits:
Kinks:
TPE, clit, nipples torture, denial, overstimulation, forced cum, humilation, degradation, impact play, pain, bladder control, deep throat, anal, stretching/gaping (both holes), Petplay, Oviposition, bodyfluids (mostly pussy moisture and squirting) item insertion (house hold stuff). Got a huge fetish for dirty panties.
Yellow: ddlg, water sport
Red: scat, toilet related play, extreme violence, gore, permanent things, blood, social suicide.
Please, write a brief introduction about yourself, and why you're interested in me as dom in particular.
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