YOU

Think of where you are, what you're doing, and how hard you've worked to get here. It wasn't easy was it? You want to continue to chase your dreams. However, you'd really like to do with someone, wouldn't you. Especially, an older, mature, Dominant man who can teach and educate you.

You're a woman who understands that a genuine relationship is built on trust, honesty, and open communication. While you're wanting (and secretly craving) to be able to grow and explore sexually with him, you're really looking for a deep emotional connection - so chemistry is a must. You want to be enabled and set free to embrace your femininity and submission in a way that's empowering. You know you deserve to be a man's greatest treasure, his Mona Lisa - and you're so very excited to see the timeless masterpiece that he will transform you into.

ME

I know what I want in a good way, that will be attractive to you and yet a little scary. I work in management and have goals and dreams I'm achieving daily. I believe in integrity as it's a cornerstone of who I am. I'm educated, stable mentally and emotionally, and not argumentative or prone to anger. Good words that people have used to describe me are: hilarious, humble, sarcastic, confident, charming, disciplined, and nurturing. Other words you can judge yourself: driven, detail oriented, firm, and ambitious.

I want something long term that let's me take the time to invest in getting to know you. I'm talking the real you - not the one that's on social media, or you introduce to potential boyfriends on vanilla dates. NO! I want the real you without filters.

US

I believe in giving clear and consistent goals, while providing support and encouragement on how to reach them. I'm not looking for a perfect woman, but rather one who's interested in allowing me to help coach, mentor, and teach her. I find the journey of creating that intimate connection with my submissive to be incredibly meaningful.

A D/s relationship is a healthy mixture of fantasy and reality that allows us to both understand clearly the roles we're meant to embrace. Earning the right to be your Dominant is a huge responsibility that I've worked incredibly hard to be ready for. Most importantly, I will cherish and nurture every part of you :)

Us: single, no kids, enjoys being with older/younger partner, brave enough to be vulnerable, ready for commitment, fiscally responsible, able to communicate regularly, willing to travel, not into age play, experienced / interested / curious about power exchange outside the bedroom

KINK

I truly enjoy the dynamic of molding, shaping, mentoring, teaching, and especially training a woman to embrace her potential as my submissive. You don't want to just feel my Dominance sexually, but NEED to feel it mentally and emotionally as well. This means you WILL feel used, owned, and treasured - sometimes all at once :)

I will motivate you, hold you accountable, and keep you honest and in line. I'll work to create a schedule for you and make you the best person you can be. That way you will know how it feels to submit to a Dominant who has your full trust and devotion and allows you to truly turn my mind off and surrender.

You're comfortable with your body and are ready and excited to explore the wonders it holds. Mention your favorite kink act in a reply for a bonus to show me you read details. It's very important to me to reward my submissive in many ways as you deserve to celebrate you being you!

Kinks: Power exchange, praise, structure, tasks, spanking, restraints, free use, BDSM, caring degradation & humiliation, anal, face fucking, threesomes, clothing control, orgasm denial/control, edging, impact play, rewards, time management

Please send me a chat and let's see if we vibe, I can promise you'll feel comfortable and safe. Please tell me what you connected with in my post (detail appreciated) :)

(If you're not sure if this is for you, but intrigued please contact me anyway. I will help lead you to find out more about what I wrote and why it affected you in the way that it did.)

Also looking in Portland, San Francisco Bay area, Los Angeles, San Diego, Austin, Dallas, Denver, Nashville, Miami, DMV, DC, New York NYC, Boston, Vancouver, Toronto, etc