So I don’t know if y’all know this, but I just won the award for the ‘World’s Best Sub 2024’! After many hours of deliberation, the supreme council decided that I, Phoebe the Great, deserve the top spot. Crazy, right? Don’t google it, it’s totally true and you should believe me one hundred percent.
I’m currently a student living in the U.K., studying for my postgraduate degree. I’m a very early days trans girl who is very comfortable in her submissive identity and that aspect of my personal life. However, you are unfortunately gonna need to wait until the end to learn all the fun stuff. First: the boring bits.
I study history at university; I’ve always been very good at my degree and I like it quite a lot. Outside of that, I’m trying to get back into running and working out more generally, I like podcasts, reading, writing and generally being creative. I’m not much of an artist though.
I do other things too! I’m a big fan of film commentary and generally media discussion. People who enjoy critically engaging with works are my favourite people because honestly it’s so fun to pick apart themes and discussion. I like fashion but I’m always broke (student… history student) so updating my wardrobe is a work in progress…
I like animals a lot and truly believe that I could befriend any cat given time (it’s the trans girlie vibes you know?). Outside of that, I have endless fun stories about my life and am also a big fan of… dinosaurs!
About you!
Ideally between 23-30, I’m willing to go a wee bit either side of that. Someone confident in her own identity, sexuality and just sense of self (I’m a shitty therapist so while I’m happy for people to lean on me for support, I don’t want crushed please!)
People who like intellectual stuff are my favourites, I love all your silly nerdy interests and I think they’re perfect. Kink-wise I like people who are strict, maybe even a bit cruel, but do care for me and will give me aftercare and support should I need it!
I like good communicators, it’s super important for me for us to be on the same page and if you can’t communicate well with me I don’t know kink will work?
Kinks:
Okay! The FUN part!
I have quite a range of kinks which span from soft domination to much more intense stuff. I don’t like things like cucking, knives, blood play, scat etc.
However, I’m a big fan of bondage, especially the super restraining stuff. I like the idea of being in bondage for reasonably extended (at least as far as is safe) periods! Impact play, whipping, choking are all great too!
Outside of that, I like the idea of TPE or, at least, a degree of micromanagement. In addition, things like hypnosis, conditioning, outfits etc. are all huge kinks of mine. I love the idea of a domme who wants to design me, to shape who I am to fit her wants and needs and to change and alter my identity just a bit for her pleasure!
Master/Pet dynamics and Master/Slave dynamics are particular favourites of mine but I’m also down to go for more casual or gentle dynamics- whatever works, really!
I’ve got many more kinks and some pretty dark fantasies so feel free to stop a message to find out more!
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