Hello all! You can call me Reed for now. I’ll get this part out of the way now: I am not looking for anything sexual nor anything exclusive. (Disappointing, I know) The part I enjoy most about subbing is power exchange and letting someone else make those decisions.

I’ll lay out a little about me and what I’m looking for, and then what I can bring to the table.

About me: I’m an early 20s trans guy, I own a small business, and I love animals (my career is in animal behavior consulting, actually!). I’m an aspiring Buddhist, and I’m autistic. I live on my own with two dogs. I’ve been on T for about a year now with plans for top but not bottom surgery. Socially transitioned for 3 years now, and I pass.

Personality wise, I’m drivey, passionate, and very determined. I am very straightforward, and you get what you see with me. I don’t have the social finesse to bother with anything else.

I enjoy learning about the why of things, and particularly in kink, the mind games side of things. I just think it’s interesting, especially with a background in behavior.

I am in a poly relationship with a primary partner. Yes he knows, and supports this.

What I’m looking for: Lifestyle coach(?) Dom(?). I just like having someone else help me with decisions on the day to day. I like getting orders and fulfilling them. I am very objective based. I always admired high protocol but feel like I’m too busy to actually enjoy it at this point in my life. I like caregiver types but I don’t really regress so…

Specifically, having someone help me to organize my thoughts and day would be nice. The thing I struggle with the most with my autism is mainly the overwhelm of things. I’m great at coming up with ideas but my execution can be lacking. I tend to bite off more than I can chew.

What you get: Intelligent conversation, perhaps assistance on business or work ideas, and other things upon negotiation (I don’t know what you want). Allow me to reiterate: not sex. If that changes I will let you know. Some people I’ve met say they just enjoy getting to watch someone grow under their guidance, so if that’s you then you might enjoy this.

I’m not picky on location, but if it matters to you, I’m based in the DMV area. I drive, I don’t drink or smoke (of age, but I hate the feeling of being intoxicated).

I look forward to talking to you- and hey; even if you’re not interested in a dynamic, I still like making friends!!