You were looking to explore your limits, you wanted to see how much you could take. You thought you could handle it. You enjoy discomfort and pain, but I'm pushing you hard. One more bloody pun or dad joke and you are going to have to safeword.

Okay so I have trouble taking myself too seriously. Yes I'm a sadist, yes I'm a dom. But before that starts to matter, you need to know I'm a bit of a goofy guy who likes to spend time in pleasant company.

I'm looking for the kind of woman who wants to watch a terrible film of an evening together and make inside jokes about the bad acting. The kind of partner who is excited to cockwarm for me, but appreciates that I angle the screen so she has a nice clear view of what's happening.

If that sounds like something you want, drop me a message or chat. Typical deal-breakers, hard limits, and a little about me is below.

I'm looking for something in the context of a long term relationship, short of permanent total power exchange, but not bedroom only. I require oral, including ingestion of semen, verbal and physical humiliation and degradation. I enjoy anal and watersports. Hard limits are multiple male participants, anything likely to cause permanent damage and non-consenting third parties.

I'm 40, 5'9" (175cm), overweight, not religious, never want children, and don't smoke. Blondish/brown hair. Recent clean STI test. Happy to share pictures once I'm convinced you aren't going to take my kidneys. My family is important to me, as is my work as a research scientist. Friends are important too, they are mostly scattered around the world and I need to be able to make time for them.

I enjoy composing music, modelling and animating in 3D using a program called blender, playing video games with my friends from around the world. Bavaria is a favorite travel destination for me, high places, beautiful lakes and forests. A history nerd, second century Rome is my favorite time period. I prefer small group events to say a disco.

Your level of experience is unimportant, as are your looks, height or weight. Your interests probably don't matter, so long as you are passionate about something. You like cuddles and attention and are masochistic or enjoy receiving pain to please your partner. Good communication and curiosity are highly valued.