Hello! I'm W! I'm looking for someone to explore with and maybe date!

About Me:

During the day I'm an engineer working at a firm downtown in the city. I WFH most of the time but still enjoy getting out. I love going to new restaurants and finding cute hole in the wall coffee shops. I value having a lot of hobbies and interests so after work you'll probably find me engaging in one of those. I really like catching live music for a few different genres, love lifting and sporty outdoorsy activities, and have a bunch of nerdier/dorkier interests you can ask me about.

Being active and healthy is very important to me and I'd love a partner who prioritizes that as well. Telling me about your gym routine, morning run, or favorite active or sporty activity is a surefire way to win me over.

Really only looking for in person connections within an hour or so of the Boston area. Would love to meet someone to date for either the shorter or longer term. I'm not personally poly but have no issues spending time with poly individuals unless you're looking for feelings to be involved - strictly in terms of emotions I don't share well.

Assorted info about me: 5'11, 165lbs, have an apartment to myself, pretty hung (I guess ironically given this post), ddf and safe sex practicant. Some anonymized sfw photos of me: https://imgur.com/a/lSz36LI

Kinky interests:

I usually identify as a switch but switchy-ness is not a must for me. I being on the receiving and the giving end of most "vanilla"-bdsm activities. I like bondage, very light pain play, making/following rules, degradation and humiliation done in a cutesy fashion and light pet play. My personal favorite kink is probably desperation play, I've been told my whimpers are cute and I enjoy turning the tables on that as well. Hard limits include anything involving non-sex bodily fluids, anything that's forgetting the first S of SSC, and I'm not particularly into feminization but would still put on a maid outfit if asked. I definitely like to keep sex and kink on the fun and lighthearted side of things over super serious scenes. I also really value taking our time, communicating, and figuring out what uniquely works for us!

Something I've wanted to explore a lot more is enm-play. I'm not really sure if hotwifing or cuckolding is really the right term for it but I'm basically after two things. The first is you getting to explore and have as much fun as you want, the more eye rolling orgasms you have the better. The second is me feeling squirmy, fun-jealous, and unable to think about anything except what you're up to!

Some fun ideas:

• I take you out for a romantic fancy dinner then I drop you off at your favorite fwb's house. Then we talk about our nights at a cute coffee date the next morning

• We go shopping for sexy outfits together to pick you out something you look irresistible in for for your next date

• We go to the beach and I encourage you to shoot your shot with the hottest guys/gals/theys you can find. Maybe you could break me down enough to wingman for you someday :)

• You recruit me to be your photographer when you need to sext your fwb. Perhaps invite me to read along to so I can understand exactly how you like being spoken to

• Being very honest comparing me to everyone you've ever been with, mixed in with cute kisses preferably

• Making me sit and watch - or just listening if you don't think I deserve that

No real must do's - tell me what you're into! Creativity definitely welcomed!

Feel free to reach out if any of this seems interesting or speaks to you! Happy to share more pictures & proof of my existence after we talk a little bit.