Hello! Haven’t tried this in a while, so I will start with the basics and then go into details from there
Basic about me: 6’2, medium-long brown hair, hazel eyes, chubby but actively working on losing weight and getting in shape. I work in the outdoors and
I went to school for film and television production and worked in Hollywood as a health and safety coordinator for a show up until the WGA and SAG strikes closed down the industry. I currently live in a remote mountain town in Northern Washington, a couple hours outside Seattle, and am working on making Washington my home!
Art is very important to me and I’ve been told very often I am a pedantic hippie who spends too much time trying to figure out life’s big questions. I love philosophy, artistic expression, radical thinking, and people who question the world around them with curiosity and wonder. In the center of all of this is a deep admiration for love and joy and i need someone else who can view the world through a similar lens with me.
I am probably closer to a soft dom than anything else. I do not enjoy TPE or having a dominant dynamic all the time, so if you’re looking for a 100% TPE dynamic, I am unable to provide. I am looking for an equal partner with whom we can each explore both our sexual kinks and identities, but also our intimate and personal identities as well. I am more dominant when it comes to sex and do enjoy the typical dom/sub dynamic in the bedroom, I just like having the comfort of being able to split emotional labor equally in all other aspects of life outside of the bedroom.
Who am I looking for? Someone with hopes and dreams and an endless imagination. I want to support my partner in becoming the best version of themselves they can be and want someone who wants the same for me. I want someone with their own likes and desires and is largely independent. I want to be close, intimate, and genuine, but I cannot handle a totally codependent relationship. I want you to have a dream for yourself and I want to help support you obtain that dream and more.
Communication, honestly, transparency, and vulnerability are the qualities I cherish most and the most important qualities I look for in a match
Kink wise, im into a lot and for the most part always down to try anything once. Here are my most prevalent, but none are hard needs and everything, of course, must be discussed beforehand to make sure we’re both enthusiastically consensual: bondage, orgasm denial, edging, pegging, sensory deprivation, sensual overload, free use, public play, some ddlg, role playing, and lots of toys
I hope something in that stood out to you, and if so you feel like reaching out! Message me however you choose, thank you for reading this far!
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