Hey there!

I’ve been a longtime lurker so I’m excited to finally post! I know long posts can be tedious so I’ll try to keep it short.

Now, I understand BDSM includes a lot of dynamics between dom and sub so to truly immerse and get the most out of the relationship it takes time to build that connection/trust.

That said, I don’t fully know what I want so I am looking for a more casual encounter this go around to explore some of my kinks/desires. I’d love to find someone who would get just as much out of this and have just as much fun as me 😉

What I’m looking for: -Either a more experienced dominate woman (mommy dom or gentle dom, also open to more intense D/s femdom) to take the reins or a girl who is also newer to bdsm looking to explore their dominate side -Age really doesn’t matter, but at least older than 24

Kinks/interests: -I get a lot of sexual gratification from filling my partner’s sexual needs. The more pleasure I’m used for, the better. -submission, blindfolding, bondage, ropes, restraints, face sitting, tease and denial, edging, free use, sensory deprivation, cock and ball bondage, roleplay, wax play, nuru, squirting, sex toys, tantric sex, massage giving, I’m open to everything except the following

Limits: definitely not into feminization, sissification, scat, ball busting, anything that leaves damage

About me: I’m a 6’4, white male. I have a good job. I’m educated with 4 university degrees. I’m in shape, muscular and somewhat lean. In my spare time I save spiders from the shower drain and rescue puppies from burning buildings (not actually, but I would in a heartbeat!). I enjoy sports, anything to near the water and spending time with good friends.

I’m 100% Std free (I was just tested), no hard drugs and I’m clean/hygienic so I would need you to match all those criteria as well.

Logistics: -I’m centrally located in SoCal and willing to drive anywhere from San Diego to Santa Barbara for the right match. -I’d prefer not to host and it would be amazing if you were willing to, but I’m also willing to get a hotel room -I’d be happy to meet somewhere beforehand with zero obligation to move forward, chat over face time or whatever you need to feel comfortable

That’s it! Thanks for reading. If you’re interested, send a chat! A picture would also be awesome and expedite getting mine as well. I’ll keep an eye out for your message 😉