Dear Sub,
What if your Submission was based on Love instead of Violence? I’ve read post upon post, and I’ve seen so many calls for pain. I refuse to believe pain is an exclusive prerequisite for servitude. Please do not misunderstand; I will delight in ensuring my cock reaches the depths of your throat, but I will also give warm cuddles and a patient ear. I will take pride in making you cum, and filling you repeatedly (I had the surgery a long time ago), but you can climb in my lap when you need me for emotional reasons too.
We are nerds. We are intelligent adults – we can talk about a great many things. We can play together and accomplish a great many things. If you can’t come to your (title here), I am failing you. However, it is more than that. It isn’t just a label. We yearn for one another. I love being needed; I sincerely enjoy providing for you. When you’re in a T-Shirt and Panties watching a show or playing a game with me, that’s just another form of ‘us’ time.
Yes, I know you’re not at your best all the time. I’m not, either. The world is a cruel place, sometimes. It’s part of why we find a safe place with each other. I want you to cook, clean, sing, stream, knit, and/or all the things that help you be who you are. I have some of that, too. Submission doesn’t mean you aren’t a person. It means you have a person (me) who helps you make decisions and reinforces the everyday things that help you be your best.
Yes, We can develop rules. I am not going to unilaterally impose them just to try to make myself feel ‘powerful.’ That doesn’t help us. We’ll figure them out together. No, we’re not going to rush into it because, again, that doesn’t help us.
I want to be needed. I am a natural leader fighting in a world of assholes and narcissists. I understand there is a small percentage of people who want that, but I know there are people out there who also want to be loved, not just hurt.