I'm a 38m Dom with years of experience in dynamics focused on power dynamics and sex, though I don't do full time dynamics. As I've matured, I've becone interested in exploring elements of training and tasks focused on helping the Sub outside the dynamic.
My Dom demeanor is like an intelectual coach; caring and perceptive, but calculating and willing to challange you to bring out what I see as the best of my sub. I do this primarily by manipuling arousal to exert control. I find getting a sense for my Sub as a person lets me bring more into the dynamic, and I understand the importance of after care. Having said that, I believe strongly that a bdsm Dom is a different role than a boyfriend or partner. I seek the former.
My relevant kinks are: humiliation through introspection, training and tasks, orgasm control, body writing, rule following and routines. If you're interested in exploring whether we'd be a fit, start by sharing some examples the tone you prefer. There's always some flexibility with a partner as we find "our tone" but I dont think it makes sense to get into rules or tasks until we get a sense for whether our energy is compatible. I look forward to hearing from you. Let me know what questions you have for me.
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