Hey there!

I’m looking for a Dom for an eventual long term thing. Ideally, we would start short term, and if we click we can go from there.

I’ve had a few run ins with some great Doms, but one thing or another gets in the way and things keep falling through for me. I’ll be honest that I haven’t found this to be an easy thing to find, not for lack of looking. I figure at this point, I might as well cast my own net instead of looking for one to fall into myself.

About me - I have thick thighs and thicker daddy issues. I’ve been on a health and wellness journey (physical, mental, and emotional) for a good while, but I am still the ‘before’ picture. If that’s not for you, no harm no foul. I work a full time job, and that takes priority above all else. I do have three day weekends, so I have plenty of time to talk and get to know eachother, as well as build up on a dynamic.

While I have had many interactions and encounters with doms, I haven’t been able to find someone I was able to build a level of trust with to engage in the things I’ve always wanted to try, like 24/7, free use, something similar to TPE. I like the idea of those things, but I don’t want to do them with someone I don’t trust fully, or who doesn’t know what they’re doing. There are a lot of people out there who rely on the word ‘Dom’ without carrying the weight of the title.

As far as things I have done and I know I like, the list includes, but is not limited to; overstimulation, gags, fucking machines, light bondage, sensory deprivation, choking, orgasm torture, orgasm control, e-stim, some pain, clips/clamps, praise, degradation, anal, collars, honorifics, objectification- there are more but the list is long.

Outside of kink, I like painting, music, I am a sucker for true crime, random documentaries, internet drama that doesn’t affect me whatsoever, and trying foreign versions of things you don’t usually see in the grocery stores. I’m also 420 friendly, and mostly a homebody.