It surprises me to see 99% of posts focus on "kinks" likes, dislikes, the sexual aspects of a D/s dynamic when everyone here should first and foremost be focusing on finding someone they are attracted to, emotionally, spiritually and physically. The kinky stuff is the easy part with the right partner.

Lets simplify. If you are a women and you know you are submissive either naturally or by choice please read on.

How you define yourself and submissiveness is not important yet...its enough to know you are and that is good enough for me right now. I do however have a strong preference for women that have their shit together, are educated and are driven to win/succeed, perhaps because that is how I am.

I just want to get to know you first and see if we connect emotionally, spiritually and find each other attractive. I have a strong preference for, slim and fit and/or athletic women. Someone that takes care of their body, eats well and is emotionally stable and available. Age isn't particularly important however I do prefer women closer to my age. If you are 18-30 please don't reply to this post you are too young for me. I don't mink women older than me, its about compatibility.

Have a job or career you enjoy, have hobbies. I'm ok if you have kids but prefer if they are grown or almost grown. I am a dad, I have two beautiful daughters 19 and 15, who don't live with me. I am divorced. I'd prefer if you lived in NY, NJ, CT. I am on LI but very near Queens. The closer we are the better because I'm all about connecting in real life.

A little more about me. Appearance wise I am 6'1, salt and pepper hair, brown eyes, beard at present but trimmed which I can keep or shave depending on my partners likes. 190lbs fit and athletic. I play hockey (I'm Canadian) so by default you already know I'm polite and well mannered. I've live in NY for 7.5 years. I have a fairly high profile job, I'm an executive and do tend to work a lot. Hoping to meet the right person to help me change that! I love to travel, work with my hands, work out, etc. My preference is to find a life partner not a fling. Someone I enjoy spending most if not all my free time with. I am of course dominant naturally. If this post peaks your interest please reply. Early exchange of photos is desired. Texting is ok for a bit but speaking and meeting face to face is preferred.