Hi. Like, the title states, I'm looking for a masochist sub. It is a hard limit that you're not a male(by this, I mean a cis male). If you're a boy or identify as one, you have to be passable and okay with going out in girly clothes. I am polyamorous(and currently have a live in partner) and I know this is a hard limit for most people so I'm putting this out here now.

I'm looking for a service submissive. You derive pleasure from pleasing and knowing that you've pleased. This dynamic will not revolve around sex(at all) or sexual things(most times), it is important that you do not need this things in order to flourish in a dynamic since you'll be very unhappy in mine. You must be intelligent, well spoken and emotionally intelligent. I get bored in the early stages of a dynamic so I advise that you know how to keep a conversation going since I'll also reply to a good convo. You should be okay with relocation too or be somewhat flexible to visit since I am not interested in an online thing. I find that people in Europe works better for me, so they will be given a ton of priority. My partner is important to me(knows about this) and sadistic too. You should be okay with him watching and involving in play sometimes(if you're going to live in, it is unavoidable). Ideally, you like showing off and being shown off. You blush when you're asked to wear something short during grocery shopping but do it anyway. I don't like very bratty subs, it gets annoying at some point so you have to know when to brat and when not to.

When I say masochist, I mean on a pain scale, you're probably an 8-10 in "enjoying" it. I do not want a sub claiming to be a masochist because they can handle a couple of spankings. I will not be your Mommy, don't ask for that. Living in doesn't mean you will not work. You have to at least want to contribute(this is a hard limit) so if you know that you want to be caged all day and treated like sub-human, this will probably not work out. I'm looking for someone that has a life outside of kink(a job, hobbies, friends), basically, be my sub but someone I enjoy talking to as well. If I can enjoy talking to you, you've won my heart already lol.

In my day to day life, I don't do much so you can expect a reply if you're what I'm looking for. My hobbies are reading, cooking, hiking, swimming and watching movies. I'm quite small so height difference is very cute to me. I enjoy cuddling and spending time with my sub when I'm not busy being mean. I lean on the left side in politics so I don't really mix well with an extreme right person.

I don't know what else to say and I'm more than happy to talk more later. If you think we'd go well together, I'd like your age, where you're from, your hobbies and why you think we'd be a good fit. You have a template now, no excuse for one liners.