Tl;dr:
I‘m a 27 Year old male from Berlin, Germany. I’m about 182cm tall and weigh about 74 Kilo (Pic included!). I’m in an Open-Polyamorous relationship with 2 wonderful people (a woman & a non-binary partner). As they’re fairly vanilla, i’m looking for a dominant person to meet my other/more Kinky needs online and maybe later IRL. We have an open relationship and are ok with having multiple partner.
About me:
I’m 27 years-old and I’m a successful Music Producer/Songwriter. Not in a "I play in a Band" kinda way, more in a "having songs on the Radio" kinda way. As this takes much of my time I do not have a lot of hobbies outside of Music. I love Gaming & going to the Gym.
I like to learn and I’d say I’m an academic type, but I do my best to live my life with a balance of logic and fun. I think there is beauty in the mundane, and I'd love a partner who can see adventure in little things :)
I really love animals and Memes around that! I also enjoy witty people who can banter a bit ;)
Physical Description:
I’m 183cm & 74kg (6", 163 lbs.) Brown eyes, brown hair and and overall more boy-ish look. Startet going to the gym regularly like 6 months ago!
What I’m Looking For (vanilla-wise):
I’d really love a partner around my age who is a good communicator, has empathy, and is able to treat me as both a boyfriends and a best friend. It’s a big plus if you live in the Berlin but as I want to start online def not a must.
Green flags for me are: intelligence, humor (you’ve gotta be prepared to get weird memes sometimes, sorry not sorry), honesty, patience, a sense of fun/adventure, and compassion. I’d say I’m on the more introverted side but I do enjoy company.
Physically, I’m not going to list specific features I like- attraction can be so individualized- but I do want to be attracted to my partner! I will be a lot more interested in anyone who shows what they look like; it would be really hard to message someone a lot, only to later find out you’re not physically interested in them. That’s why I’ve attached some full-body photos, so you can tell if you’d be attracted to me, and to help you feel more comfortable sharing pics back. I can send face pics if we hit it off (I’d prefer keeping my face private from all of Reddit rn haha) I will never send a facepic in combination with Bodyparts/Nudity, so please don't ask for that!
What I’m Looking For (NSFW):
One thing that I’ve find missing from my existing relationships is a healthy D/S dynamic, which I would love to experience. I think I’d like to start out vanilla and go from there, but I’m pretty submissive and would love someone who will appreciate and nurture that. I’m not looking o crush into 100% 24/7 dynamic, but I do want some elements of it in my everyday life and escalate from there. While I’m a responsible person, I sometimes I get a bit overwhelmed and wish I had someone who’d enjoy helping to keep me on track. I’d say that I’m looking for a soft dom, since I love power dynamics, control, protectiveness, providing for my partner and being cared for in return, but I do enjoy degradation, sadism, etc. as well!
Because of this, I’m looking for someone who understands the fundamentals (consent, safety, aftercare, etc.) of BDSM, and is looking for an actual partner, rather than just someone to fulfill their fantasies. That being said, if you take care of me, I’ll definitely take care of you. I adore doing what I can to make my partner happy <3
I think I am an excellent sub because my fantasy is more following orders and being told what do to instead of a fixed set of fantasy’s that a dom(me) should „fulfill“ for me.
My limits: incest, age play, being ignored as a punishment race play, beastiality, blackmail, scat.
Thanks for reading, I look forward to hearing from you! <3
Also, If this post is still up, I’m still looking!
PS: If you recognize me somehow, just since I’m admittedly nervous to be linking pics of myself on a place like this… pretend you didn’t see me here! lol
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