Dipping your toes into the BDSM pool can be quite daunting, even if you aren’t necessarily a beginner. I know that I paused things during the pandemic and am sure that many others did as well…and the prospect of finding a new partner is difficult.
I think the importance of the mental aspect and mental connection and trust is often overlooked and I’m here to say that it’s paramount to me. Building trust with each other is what allows us to be vulnerable and explore things, be they limits or even things that are in our comfort zone.
I’d like to let a natural dynamic develop rather than set roles up front. Let’s start with a conversation, discuss our experiences, interests, goals, likes/dislikes, and take it from there.
If this sounds interesting to you, I would love to hear from you. Good luck in your search.
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