I was never into NiN but that lyric always resonated with me regarding a dynamic. It's the depth of connection I'd like to build up to over time.

I'm a dominant, 42 year old man in a long-term relationship and would prefer you to also be. Ideally, I'd like to find a submissive I can engage and banter with in a way that lets us maintain our dynamic but also maintain a relationship beyond that. Privacy and discretion will always be maintained and I will fall on a grenade rather than burn someone. Complete honesty will be a requirement from both of us.

Regarding kinks, I prefer to let things develop and go where they will naturally rather than provide a laundry list but I also don't want to catch someone unsuspecting. To provide an idea of the things I often enjoy: CNC, degradation, impact play, breath play, and humiliation. I also have a major slut fetish. Scat is my only hard no.

On the non-kink side, fitness is the only consistent hobby I've made time for over the last 15 years. I can carry on conversations about most subjects but may need assistance with recent pop culture. Timotheeee seemed to be a good Paul though.

In prospective partners I'm flexible on age, appearance, and body types as chemistry trumps everything else. However, physical and mental health should be a priority in your life.

Telegram is my preferred method of contact. I'm available throughout the day and night via text and can send voice notes daily. However, I don't have ready availability for live calls. A few evenings a month are the only firm commitments I can make, which I understand can be challenging to schedule for. Other windows can appear but without much notice.

I'm 5'11, HWP/on the muscular side, and not white. I have black hair mixed with gray and brown eyes. I don't really show my age beyond all the gray. I'd like to verify (without faces) early on that we are whom we claim to be and build to exchanging photos and videos regularly.

If you're made it this far and remain interested, send me a message or chat to tell me about yourself and see if we click in conversation. What is your favorite fiction book or series?

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