Happy New Year everyone!
Versatility in BDSM is incredibly important. I don’t have a mold for you to fit into. I have preferences (see below), but I am open to many options.
In addition to versatility I offer open, direct, informed communication. While I have the ability to be strict I am extremely understanding. As important as communicating is, listening is often more important. To build a dynamic organically I have to know the person I’m talking to. I’ve been told my superpower is making people feel seen. Especially for people who struggle to feel that way.

Activities:

I am open to an extremely long list of BDSM activities. I have been doing BDSM professionally (links upon request) since 2006. My experience ranges from light impact to CNC medical fetish. Please don't let that intimidate you. I am just as comfortable giving spankings as I am with the more intense kinks. Some of my favorites are orgasm play (forced orgasms, edging, ruined orgasms, etc), bondage, CNC, S&M, psychological play. Things I am not interested in doing are: Public play and race play. Beyond that I am generally open to almost everything.

Dynamics:

Without much exception I am looking for a long term partnership. I am open to meeting and getting to know each other online for a while, but physical affection is my primary love language. At some point I have to know that I will be able to spend significant amounts of time together if not cohabitating. I like dynamics all over the range of possibilities. Power exchange of some sort is important to me. However, it doesn't have to be in a traditional sense at all. I have significant Dad energy and often take on a caregiver role with partners.

I am much more interested in the connection with the person than any particular dynamic or activities. I am a romantic person. I strongly prefer having a romantic connection with anyone I am in a dynamic with. My only limit with dynamics is that I won't have children or be involved with children (It's not acceptable with my job). I've had a vasectomy.

You:

You know who you are and you're not afraid to say what you want. You recognize that being assertive about your needs doesn't make you any less submissive. You are open to living in New Hampshire in the middle of the woods. You have some real world experience or you are extremely enthusiastic. You like physical touch, both giving and receiving.

The Inappropriate Bits:

I am politically far left, religiously agnostic, and intensely philosophical. I'm 5'11" and have a dad bod. I respect privacy, but I consider it reasonable to exchange g-rated pictures within a week of meeting. I'm very open and believe in being vulnerable as a Dominant so please ask me any questions you have.

If you've read this far I really appreciate it. If you think anything I've said so far excludes you please reach out anyway. As I said, I'm very understanding.