I'm technically gender fluid but due to recent events I've been leaning way more femme and I am AFAB.
Do you like rewarding someone for completing tasks? I recently tore two ligaments and start physical therapy this week. I would love for someone to enjoy making me do additional exercises at home. The reward could be as simple as praise, I'm a total praise whore that loves being graded and measured. Once my ankle is better it's back to rowing and other things to lose weight from all the RICE I did right after this injury.
I've posted here before so I'm including my old post content. I'm most interested in a switch so I can practice my Dom side more too.
I want a caregiver type because no one has ever treated me as well as my parents do. Every partner I've had has left me wanting more. I might be a little, but it's not something I've explored yet. I don't really dress that way but I like stuffies and Disney. Maybe I'm more of a middle? I don't think I'd want to be a little in scenes tho. So that's another reason why I'm considering a caregiver, but I also really like pleasure doms/dommes and service tops.
Outside of scenes I need the love they showed me. Flowers just because, not because you messed up. Words of affirmation with more weight than the occasional "good girl" though I do love those too. Quality time spent that isn't just sexy times, I grew up with board game nights, arcades trips and daddy/daughter dates. Why is it so hard to find someone that will give you quality time, their undivided attention, and be intentional about the time you spend together?
As for kinks and scenes, I'll have to know you enough to like you a lot before we dive into my masochist side. But my hard limits are blackmail, scat, hypno, watersports, animals, minors, permanent marks, beating, humiliation, degradation, feeding, anal, and anything that affects my family or my work. My family and my career are my top priorities. I am a rope bunny who loves some pain, so I'm sure we'll find some overlap. I also am gender fluid afab but prefer to present femme or how you'd like me to present. Use me as your doll or your masterpiece.
The boring stuff: I am non-monogamous and have one partner. I am in the EST zone. I work a regular 9-5. I would prefer fully online. I have people in my life that are high risk for COVID so it is unlikely I will travel or want to meet in person any time soon.
If you're still intrigued, I'd love to know your age (prefer within 10 years in either direction), your favorite hobbies and for you to describe two typical days for you….one of your work days and one of your days off.
I can't wait to hear from you and hope we can make a connection!
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