About me:
You can call me Isaac. I am a 32 year old man living in Western North Carolina with my mixed breed hound dog. I own a small house and a little land here, close to the city but still feels like you're in the woods. I work a fairly flexible job from home with a small non-profit in the area. I have degrees in history and political science. I love to read, write, cook, meditate, watch films, draw, make art and garden. I can be a bit of a homebody sometimes but I also love to go out and play music, hike, do stand up, dance, have new experiences. I absolutely love to travel as well and am planning to go to Croatia, France and Italy in the fall. I'm a pretty soft spoken person, calm, friendly but stoic unless I really connect with someone. Physically I'm 6'1", fairly muscular and fairly fat (I lost about 50lbs last year and will lose about 50 more this year). Choctaw/caucasian with long dark hair and dark eyes.
Leftist.
Childfree, not wanting to have kids but bring on the pets.
Agnostic.
About you:
You should be close to me, I am not looking for anything online or long distance so please be close or planning to relocate fairly soon. Leftist or at least not right-winger. Creative person with their own hobbies and interests. Possibly open to the idea of an alternative lifestyle, getting away from the 40 hour workweek, not completely homesteading or anything but would love someone who was interested in growing some of our own food and finding other ways to get by while having more time to live life. Would love someone with experience in kink but at the very least you should have done some reading and have a good idea of yourself and what you want.
About us:
Looking to build a relationship into an M/s 24/7 TPE lifestyle. I'm not looking for that to be immediate and I would like to take it somewhat slowly but also don't want to just idle on it for too long. I want love and comfort and fun but also intensity, pain and a constant power dynamic. Looking for long-term commitment. collaring and maybe branding eventually. I want to push you to be better and I want you to help me be better. I also want intensity and for us to enable each other's darker and hedonistic sides.
Most unsurprisingly I have some control issues which is why we are here, haha. I want someone who wants and needs that control, Not looking to micromanage your whole life but I am looking for someone who wants and takes comfort in someone else making decisions for them. I want to take control and put you on the same path with me to the same/similar goals. I want you to be valued but at the same time be under me and serving me if that makes sense.
I really do want love and romance first and foremost though. I want someone I can be myself with and they can be themselves with me. To eventually know our pasts and our flaws and to have a love that's stronger because of it. Is that sappy or what?
Kinks:
Looking for someone as kinky and fucked and intense as me. I would describe myself as Master/Sadist/Daddy. I like to be loving, and kind one minute and treating you like trash the next. Very into giving pain, degradation, gooning/bimbofication/mind control, objectification, rules ,rituals, praise, bondage/caging, CNC, freeuse. I don't expect anyone to be into every single thing I am but if you are looking for a soft dom I am not it.
Ok, I've said "intense" a few times so I'll explain more specifically and with some scenarios...
Impact sessions -Beating, spanking, whipping. I want tears, deep bruises, begging, maybe blood. I get a lot of pleasure from causing pain. Following up with fucking your face or your bruised tits and making you thank me for it.
Regular, casual degradation-
Poking fun at your mistakes, calling you little names, being nice one minute and out of nowhere degrading you, cooking you dinner only to dump your food on the floor and make you eat it there. Grabbing food, your phone, whatever from you and throwing them in the trash without even looking at you.
Degradation scenes-
Telling you we are going to a concert and having you get dressed up for it only to tear your clothes up and tell you how stupid you are for thinking I would take you out anywhere and that you're only use is being my fucktoy.
Micromanaging you at times-
Picking out clothes, ordering food for you at restaurants, tracking you, controlling your phone, telling you when to go to the bathroom and treating you like you can't make your own choices in public. Putting you on an edging schedule and making you send pictures at specific times.
CNC-
Taboo roleplay, dark roleplay, daddy/daughter roleplay. We are sitting watching TV, I tell you to get under the blanket with daddy. I start rubbing your arms, then your thighs... "Daddy what are you doing..." You get the picture. You beg me to stop the whole time and then I punish you afterwards for making me do it and being such a slut.
Freeuse-
Having you spend a day gagged, not allowed to stand, following me around on your hands and knees to use whenever I want and told to not even think about coming. Similarly, having you tied to the bed for hours for daddy to use your holes.
Ok so lots I didn't even get into but maybe that is some of the picture. Of course all that would be built up to and some of that might not happen for a long time. Lots more I'm into and plenty I'm neutral about. Hard limits are: Scat, ABDL, Illegal shit obviously
Shoot me a message and include a picture if you like and I'll send one back! Here are some basics if you want to include your:
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