hi all, i’m pretty new to the bdsm world (at least the online side) but i’ve been single for a few months and am starting to explore my more kinky side on my own and would rlly like an online dom or “friend” to help keep me accountable, set me tasks, rules and punishments and discuss fantasies with. i’d also like this to be someone i can genuinely connect with, and i’d like us to be able to have good, wholesome conversations and get to know each other instead of just a strictly sexual dom/sub relationship. if you live in oceania or asia that would be a large bonus, if we get on maybe i could come visit you some day ;)

i’ve really only just started this “denial journey” but i want see how long i can go without cumming and have a dom to help keep me constantly soaked and horny, the perfect toy. i’d like to build this up to more extreme edging (ie. days to weeks to orgasming once a month ect). don’t message if you plan to let me edge for an hour or two and then cum. i want actual denial. if i cum, i must ruin and accept my punishment.

i’m a bisexual trans guy and irl i’ve only ever been with women and other trans men so i would definetly be interested in someone with a cock who can see me as a real person and sexual entertainment simultaneously

kinks: pussy spanking/spreading, butt plugs and wearing toys for long periods of time, orgasm denial, semi-public play (nothing extremely risky that would get me arrested, yes this includes no window stuff), group humiliation, anal & dp, wedgies, orgasm control & denial

limits: degradation, ddlg/ageplay, pissplay/scat, electro-shock and anything that could cause actual physical harm or harm to my everyday life lmao