Hi all! I'm Harvey, a 20 year old autistic queer trans guy (he/they pronouns) located in Arkansas, USA. I am pre-op and have been on testosterone for a few months.
A short physical description of me: I'm 5'5, around 130-ish pounds, and built like a stick. I'm a brunette with grey eyes. I look pretty androgynous, to the point that in my day-to-day I'm "ma'am" to some and "sir" to others.
If you can't handle a partner who struggles with mental health issues and trauma I am not for you. I grapple with depression, anxiety, PTSD, and some body issues just so you have an overview of what you could encounter. I consider myself to be pretty easygoing and agreeable. I don't mind a LDR. I'm looking for someone from the USA or Canada who's 20 . I'm monogamous and place emphasis on devotion and commitment in my relationships.
I'm a HUGE hockey fan. My favorite teams are the Minnesota Wild (NHL), PWHL Minnesota (Women's Hockey), and the Razorback Hockey Club (MACHA/ACHA). I will talk your ear off about hockey if you'll let me. My favorite NHL players are Marcus Foligno and Marc-André Fleury and yes I will talk about them specifically all the time. I love to read, write, and draw! I'm also a fairly casual gamer. My favorite games/series include Fallout, Uncharted, Assassin's Creed, and Cult of The Lamb. I play clarinet and adore music in general. I also have some other interests but I can't name them off the top of my head haha.
I'm looking for a partner who'll be there for me and provide genuine connection. I love affection, whether it's physical or spoken. Call me pet names and let me sit in your lap for hours. The biggest thing I ask is to be open to learning about my interests. Watch a hockey game with me. Ask me questions about the lore of my favorite games. I really do just want to love and be loved in return.
Sex is an important component of a relationship for me. I'm a switch with a heavy sub lean and a verse who prefers to bottom but I can be a dom or a top if the mood is right.
I'd be happiest with a partner who is a gentle daddy dom.
I'm into some light pet play. I like being a puppy boy. Tell me what to do and micromanage me a little bit. I have a language kink for French (specifically if you're French Canadian and can speak Québécois I'm a puddle on the floor). I enjoy dirty talk A LOT. Please talk to me lol. I love taking photos. I like light humiliation and some degradation. I have a HUGE praise kink. I enjoy some impact play. JOI, orgasm control/denial, and edging are also other enjoyments of mine. I also love being expressing myself femininely and looking pretty for someone (just a pretty boy please no feminization). Feel free to inquire about specific things and I'm open to trying most things.
I'm a sensitive sub who's not exactly inexperienced but still new to things. I need a dom who is attentive and empathetic and not overly strict.
Feel free to message me if I sound like the sweet golden retriever bf of your dreams. 💚 :)
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