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33 [M4F] #Online - Nerdy dom looking for sweet, nerdy sub for kink and gaming
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Brightly_Waking is a male age 33 looking for a female in online
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Heya!

I'm a nerdy dom, looking to meet a sweet, nerdy sub that I get along with! I want someone that I click with as a person, as my sub, and who also has at least some interest in gaming, and wants to spend time together outside of kink, just hanging out playing games together!

About me:
I'm a very upbeat, optimistic, empathetic, wholesome sort of person, and I get along best with people who are similar. If you're a genuinely nice person, we'll probably get along great! Anti-vaxxers or people with far-right ideologies need not apply.

Kink:
The sort of D/s relationship I'm looking for exists primarily in the bedroom. I want to joke around, be sweet, be wholesome... until we get into it. Then, I want you screaming "Daddy" while I roughly use your body, with my hands around your throat...but always ending with us going back to whispering sweet nothings, cuddling, joking, and enjoying each other's company.

I enjoy D/s kink on pretty much any level of intensity. Whether it's just being called "Daddy", and saying you're "mine" with otherwise vanilla sex, extreme CNC roleplay, or anything in-between... It's all fun to me!

I prefer softer subs to bratty ones - I've found extreme brattiness is pretty incompatible with what I'm looking for.

Gaming:
I'm big into co-op games, as well as casual multiplayer games and a variety of singleplayer fair. I play primarily on PC/Switch, and have a soft spot for Nintendo games. Recently I've been playing Splatoon 3, FF14, MtGA, PoE, and Tabletop Simulator (Board and Card games in general are great too!). As long as you don't play exclusively MOBAs and competitive FPS games, I'm sure we'll have a bunch of interests in common!

What I'm looking for:
It's important to me that we get along and are close, outside of kink. I'm definitely looking for some level of intimacy - something akin to "lovers", as opposed to "FWB"s. Having said that, I'm not currently looking to start a committed, monogamous relationship. I'm okay with either poly, or something more casual than that!

Thank you for reading all this! If, after having done so, you feel like we might click - send me a DM or chat message introducing yourself! I look forward to getting to know you, and am crossing my fingers, hoping my perfect sub stumbles across this post. :)

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