As we approach the grey days of February, I'm finding myself itching for an engaging, curious, and flexible person with whom I can develop a regular and ongoing friendship and play partnership. I'm a total nerd who finds that everything gets interesting when you look at it hard enough, and apply the same level of attention to detail when exploring how a partner reacts.
I am a switch, poly, queer and genderqueer, not because I can't make a decision but because life is a multifarious and beautiful thing. I love feeling the flow inside power dynamics, even in ones where I take on a primarily dominant or submissive role, because contrast makes everything more fun.
My human body fits most neatly into the descriptors "cis-passing dad," "tallish," "chubby, broad-shouldered stembo," "wouldn't look out of place at either a board gaming convention or Home Depot".
I'm not picky about what kind of hardware my partners have, but tend to be attracted more to folks with femme or androgynous tendencies. I'm flexible enough to be happy with people who fall anywhere on the D/s spectrum, though if you want true sadism from me I'm not your person. What does matter to me is that you are consistent and passionate and a good communicator, and that you'd ideally like to see each other a few times a month at least, assuming we pass each others' vibe checks.
We can absolutely talk more about specific kinky interests, but please lead with a little about how you exist in the world!
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