If you like the fantasy of having a slave girl locked up in the basement. I have been needled, cattle prodded, I take cold showers every morning, and I bruise but it takes some real effort and I recover quickly. I should probably start that I have someone I'm pursuing a long term D/s dynamic with, but we're both poly and I want to expand my horizons and get experience. Sorry if I sound overly precocious. And I don't want to make anyone into more mild or casual play feel bad.
I guess I should start by defining edgeplay, to me edgeplay is about a difference in attitude along with a difference in risk profile. Calculated risk rather than complete mitigation or minimization of risk. A bigger focus on kink as identity rather than kink as exploration of sensation. Edgeplayers want to be changed by something rather than merely experience something. That's the idea I've picked up talking to people.
That's why I like heavier bondage, cages, more intense pain play... they induce a fundamentally different mindset. I want to be changed, transformed, forget about everything else just for a moment. If you're looking to do more intense longer scenes hit me up, I guess.
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