Hello. I am a 33 year old Dom seeking a submissive, or two submissives (doubtful but if any pairs are curious I'd love to talk to you), for a limited TPE. What I mean by limited is that the TPE will only apply when you are at my house. After we have met and decide we want to move forward, we will establish and agree upon what control you would like to give up, and while you are at my house you will be in submissive/pet/slave mode. If this interests you, read on and if you're still interested by the end, I would love to hear from you.

About Me: As I said, I am 33, male, white, and a Dominant. I am 6'3”, about 175 lbs, with a lean build. No muscle but I am working on it. I have short brown hair, brown eyes, and wear glasses. I consider myself on the handsome side of nerdy. I have over 10 years experience, off and on, in the lifestyle, mostly revolving around training and scenes as opposed to a 24/7 dynamic. I have experience in impact play, bondage (cuffs more so than rope), sensory play, orgasm control/denial, wardrobe control, weekly rules, threesomes, pet play, CnC, and choking.

As a Dom, I am primarily a Pleasure Dom. I do have my own interests and desires, and some of those fall more in line with power-play dynamics, but often those take a backseat to the pleasure and exploration that my submissive is interested in. I am, more recently, trying to push a little bit on getting my own desires out there, and hope to create a happy balance between my own fantasies while giving my sub the type of dynamic scenes she craves.

What I am looking for: At the moment I am primarily looking for a play partner, somewhere around once a week would be a sweet spot but I'm open to more, or less. I'd say any less than twice a month isn't for me though. Someone who will be just as likely to text me asking if they can come over to serve as I am to text them with the request. While I am looking for a TPE during our play sessions, I am not looking to micromanage or be demanding outside of our play. If I ask, you are free to say no or that you are busy. It's once you have agreed to the session that I want the more total control (within reason, not looking to decide when you can go the bathroom). If we get along well and enjoy our play, and decide we want more from it, we can have that conversation down the line but I do not want to start with any expectation beyond our play sessions. To that end: I do not care if you are poly or monogamous, I do not care if you have a relationship or not, I am open to someone who is entirely new to BDSM, as well as someone who has plenty of experience. The only thing I care about is consent. If your boyfriend knows you're experimenting, great. If you are cheating behind his back, I don't want to be involved.

In terms of my own interests, they include: wardrobe control, pet play, light rules, and skin-on-skin contact (naked cuddling is a big, non-penetrative kink for me). I have some experience, but would like to explore more in manhandling, erotic hypnosis, and Shibari tying. I have other interests but I like to leave some mystery for our discussions. In terms of my interests, the only ones I really require for our dynamic is wardrobe control (specifically while you are in my house) and naked cuddling. The others are all negotiable.

Limits: I do not engage in anything illegal that will get us arrested, blood play, vomit play, scat, hard impact play that results in severe bruising, no permanent scarring, hooks, knife play, age play, or being called “Daddy.” For now, I will also add that I am not looking for any CnC scenes to start. If we click well and work together long enough it's an option, but it's a soft limit at the beginning. I'm not looking for that level of intensity and dark head space right now.

Requirements: Note that I am not flexible on any of these. You must be between the ages of 21 and 35. You must be assigned female at birth, you must be drug and disease free (weed is acceptable but I do not allow smoking in my house), and you must be between a petite to average body weight, no one overweight. I work to stay in shape and improve my body and I'm looking for the same. And finally, you must be local-ish. I would prefer someone in the Denver area, but I'll accept anyone from up to Fort Collins and down to Colorado Springs—it's an easy drive, plus I can host.

If you are still interested: fantastic. I would love to hear from you and start talking more. In your first message to me, just tell me a little bit about yourself, a physical description (or sfw photo but not required), and if you have any experience in BDSM.

I look forward to hearing from my future submissive soon.