I’m writing this post because I really want to cultivate a long term relationship with someone, and I want to be as honest/transparent as possible, in order to attract the person who would be right for me.
I’m introverted and shy so, typical dating isn’t easy for me. I also like this method, because it allows me to present and describe myself honestly and somewhat comprehensively, so if you reach out I know you are interested in me personally and I don’t have to be uncertain about your interest.
Who am I?
My name is Jake.
I’m a 23 year old living in New Jersey.
I have a complicated past, but somehow I’ve managed to keep my head above water despite the seemingly endless series of catastrophes that characterize my childhood and adolescence.
I’m highly creative and open minded. The only thing I know for sure is that I don’t know very much, but I know that I’m glad I’ve got to experience life, I’m glad to have engaged in creativity. My favorite creative outlet is creative writing. I enjoy writing poetry, erotica, fiction, journals, and other things. I also really enjoy consuming other people’s art, whether it’s music, something visual, or something literary, creativity and art are why I’m here.
I have two jobs, so my time can be limited sometimes, this is unfortunately necessary for me to cover living expenses and put money away. I hope to complete my degree eventually, but that’s on the back-burner until I have my own place to live.
What I want is for someone to confide in, to talk with every day, who won’t disappear from my life at the first bump in the road. I would hope for you to have a willingness to engage in voice or video calls, and be as honest, transparent, and enthusiastic as I am. I want this to be true and real.
I want to find someone who likes me for who I am, who wants to be with me.
Someone who is serious about having a relationship.
Now, I’m sort of not conventional as a person.
I’m introverted, introspective, creative, open-minded, and empathic. I’m also very kinky. This expresses in the sense that I tend to have strong submissive/masochistic desires and fantasies, though it’s not always the same, and I occasionally have more dominant fantasies. I say this to say, I’m not vanilla. I want to explore sexual fantasies. Also, while I am romantically monogamous, I have a cuckolding kink, so it would be thrilling for me to be dominated by my partner by having to watch her/participate in her sexually pleasuring another man. I like this kink because the emotion of jealousy is perplexing, challenging, and interesting to me. Humiliation is also a similarly interesting emotion. So, in regards to this kink, yes you would be allowed to sexually pleasure other men, as long as it’s specifically to trigger my jealousy/cuckolding kink. Outside of that, I would not be allowed to engage similarly with other women (the unfairness aspect is part of the appeal to me), and I don’t want you to be romantically or emotional involved with the man(men) you pleasure beyond the sexual dynamic. I want our relationship (between me and you.) to be romantically/emotionally exclusive if possible, though I am willing to compromise on this as it’s a lot to ask someone to pleasure another person without forming a bond with that person.
To explain further, I genuinely love women who are perverse/lewd. I’m not prudish at all and I don’t negatively judge promiscuous women. I love seeing a woman behaving sexually even if it’s not with me. I’m endeared to a woman’s pleasure. Seeing you experience pleasure is very pleasing to me. I would be happy to dress provocatively even as my significant other, it’s okay by me if others see, I don’t have a negative association with jealousy. I like the feeling of jealousy.
Essentially, I want us both to feel free, open minded, and transparent with one another.
I want our relationship to be important to both of us.
If you feel you understand me, or even if you just want to get to know me, feel free to reach out.
If you are the woman for me, I hope this post reaches you. 🤞🖤
Thanks for reading - Jake
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