I am:

I am 28, F (trans, POST OP, easily pass), I live/work a good career in Manhattan, 420 enthusiast (:

I am a trans woman, but I do NOT have a penis. DO NOT MESSAGE if that is something you are looking for please!

More physical description: white, healthy weight/BMI, average height. I've been described as cute.

Vanilla stuff: I’m pretty career focused, super nerdy (I often host the video game servers I play), and love word play / puns. I enjoy most cuisines, from sushi to Ethiopian to burgers. I don’t drink often or in excess, though I do enjoy edibles frequently.

I like:

I made a kinklist per the suggestion in the sidebar, though it is a tiny bit out of date: https://i.imgur.com/4Lf8ETa.png

More than anything I'm really into restraints, which to me means anything that restrains me from moving (i.e: cuffs, rope, chains), doing something (gags, mittens, chastity), removes a sense (blindfolds, I also really want to try blackout contacts sometime), or just transfers control (leash). Recently I’ve been trying out a chastity belt, but I don’t have anyone to take these keys…

I'm also just generally submissive, but I do like to test my limits sometimes, hehe. I'm into other things too -- if you have some fun ideas, don't be afraid to mention it yourself! I wont judge! (:

I'm looking for:

I'm looking for a respectable, similar age (24-34) dominant (mostly monogamous but maybe poly), in the NYC area. I respect independent people, people who take care of themselves (healthy weight for example). I want someone who might enjoy taking control.

I'm most interested in the possibility of a long-term relationship. So more than just BDSM, but dates or games like normal people too. It’d be cool to find someone I can play board and video games with. I'm open to a range of things though.

I am potentially open to poly, but I am not open to being anyone's cheat. Do not do that.

If that is you:

Message me! Tell me about yourself, and what you're into! <3 I can be shy sometimes, so ask me questions!