Are you looking for an incredible guy who aims to please? Read on!

I was in an incredibly toxic marriage for 17 years, where I was essentially treated as a human vibrator - used to get my partner off, and stuffed back in the drawer when they were finished.

Since divorcing 3 years ago, I've done a lot of work on myself - therapy, dating, etc. My challenge is currently - there are so many experiences I'd like to have, things I'd like to try to both get to better know my sexuality and overcome some insecurities of my past. I'm finding increasingly that while vanilla sex is fine, I don't know if it is as satiating as the less vanilla experiences I've had.

So far I feel I lean pretty hard soft/pleasure dom, but have never been on the receiving end of someone who's a true switch or dominant. I am incredibly open minded with a try most anything twice attitude, and would love to find a consistent, clean, and safe partner to explore with.

The again, isn't that what everyone's looking for?

Im 37, divorced with kids and majority custody so my spare time is freely shared with those who value it as much as I do. I'm educated, empathetic, open minded, and open/honest with my communication (thanks therapy!). I'm recently tested (and happy to share when appropriate) sterile, and believe in enthusiastic consent. I have a ton of interests and hobbies, and am generally pretty content with my life - well, except for this part currently :)

I'm looking for you - the person who wants a willing and enthusiastic person to explore their sexuality as well. That, or maybe you have a penchant for teaching others, enjoying being the muse for inspiring someone's passions. Either way - you're the person I want to talk to. I'm open to all sorts of dynamics, but the most important aspect of all is that everyone is enjoying themselves.

If this piqued your interest, internet stranger, I'd love to hear from you. Last year preferably, but now works just as well 😉