The title says it clearly... I am 24 years old M, I am a switch, I past I used to call myself "dom-leaning", but now I feel I want to express more my submissive side.
Essentially, I am looking for someone to explore that with.
About me (in brief)
- I am 24 yo and I am from Italy
- In my daily life I am a master student
- I have some hobbies and interests but I hate to listen them, especially there
- I am nearly 1.80m tall, neither slim neither chubby body type (I keep myself in decent shape, but definitely not a sporty person), dark blonde/brown hair, blue eyes. I usually like to present myself well dressed and clean
- I could be described as a slightly stubborn introvert. If you know what it means, I am an INTJ (without taking it too seriously)
- The things I love the most are my moments for myself and deep talks with others. Not much a fun of loud places and people who do too much small talk
About me (kinkly)
Kinkly, I am a switch, I used to call myself mainly Dominant but right now I feel I want to explore my submissive side for a while. I had some experience (mostly online) into domming, but very few as a sub. I know "the theory", I did some practice but I still had to live a full experience as a sub.
My main kinks as a sub are: orgasm control, edging, tease and denial, spanking, hit play in general, some pain in general (if put in the right mood I can become a little masochist slut and beg for it), sensation play in general (I like creative ways to tease the body), ass play, bondage, discipline and guidance, tasks and orders, worshipping, doing my best to be a good boy.
I guess I like more a gentle attitude, but this doesn't mean I couldn't a stricter approach. I am pretty open to ear from you what kind of dynamics do you like and why.
Some additional stuff I want to mention but it's more delicate is: chastity (I like the idea of an extended orgasm control, I don't have a cage), pegging (love the idea too, but sig... my ass isn't used to that much action), rules and control (no TPE but after a while I may be willing to explore some power exchange), a bit of humiliation and degradation (i may like it, but needs to be explored in the right way)
Limits: extreme pain, blood, permanent, any body liquid (except spit and cum, that instead could be added to the kinks), strong degradation and humiliation, extreme pet play, age regression, findom, privacy, blackmail, interfering with private life, sending immediately NSFW and/or face pictures (both are things that require a level of trust, especially the second one, which actually may even never come), text only (I would like we could proof each other we exist for real).
What I am looking for (and what could I offer)
To keep things simple, I am looking for a Dominant or switch woman which wants to to explore with me my submissive side for a while. Since as a sub I am a beginner, I would like someone that likes to give some guidance, or which is willing to explore things together, or even both.
About your age: be 18 or over, better if you are over 20. Please, be on or above legal age for your country.
About your location: I guess this will be online, so any location is okay. Of course, the closer the better.
About what I am looking for: i am looking for something (for now) online, which can begin in a easy-going way then we see. I am not looking for a life time partner, but neither a one time only. What I look for is more something casual-mid term thing, which can eventually evolve depending on how much we click and how it goes.
For sure I appreciate if we reach to build some form of connection, mainly related to kinky stuff but which can also extend outside.
Why choosing me and not another one in 1000 (what can I give you, kinkly and non)
I am a pretty deep person (once I open up), when I want I can listen people and support them, I can give people original insights, I can make good inside jokes once we know each other.
Kinkly, I can become a little needy whore if properly teased, or either I can also focus 100% on your pleasure when needed. I have good imagination.
If you guess we could click, I wait for a your Dm here on Reddit (I may not answer immediately because of time zones, but for sure in a day you will get an answer). I appreciate a brief introduction of who you are (if not already present in profile). See you soon!
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