About Me

• 30M from Denver, CO

• Work as an electrical engineer doing controls design, this means my schedule is sometimes hectic and I'm on call during specific stages of projects

• Hobbies/interests - Food science/baking/cooking, home automation/home server stuff, RPGs (table top and video games), cosy/casual video gaming (think nintendo stuff), fitness, and typical stuff like travel/music/TV/movies.

• SFW Pic - 5'11", ~190-200 lbs, long brown hair. Open to sending additional pics for verification.

What I'm Looking For

• A long term ENM dynamic/relationship that's not purely sexual. I'm looking for a friendship/relationship with femdom involved, not just sessions. I'm married (28F) and my wife is also very submissive - we've both had a dynamic with the same domme before, which involved shared tasks and play, and she's open/eager to do this again, but you'll have to speak with her, if you'd like, to see if the connection is there.

• Someone between ~22-40, ideally in Colorado or a surrounding state

• Takes reasonable care of herself physically

• Likes to spend time together casually (IE cooking food together on voice/video call, watching the same TV show/reading the same book together, etc)

• Leans more soft/gentle domme who is more focused on pleasure rather than pain, but isn't afraid to punish when warranted

• Willing to provide verification with your username shortly after we start talking - not just a selfie of a woman. Every time I post I find that 90% of the DMs I get are using fake pics and demand money after a few messages back and forth.

NSFW Preferences

• Ultimately, the thing that makes me happy is to make you happy/proud of me, especially by doing embarassing things for your enjoyment. I'm willing to try most kinks that are not hard limits, and most things that I've tried in the past have slid into my "favorites" list. I love praise/rewards, and I enjoy punishment so long as it doesn't go too far.

• Kinks I particularly enjoy: Edging/light orgasm control or denial, power exchange/daily tasks with rewards/punishments, light humiliation/degradation, anal play/training, semi-public play, face sitting / body worship, impact play, rope play, and feminization (doing my hair/nails/wearing feminine clothes)

• Soft limits: pet play, CBT

• Hard limits: sounding, chastity, blood, fire, scat, findom/tributes

• Toys/items I have include plugs, rope, and some clothing like panties/bra/skirt (as well as my wife's clothes)

• Open to sending NSFW pics for verification, but not with face included until trust has been established