ONLY PEOPLE WHO ARE IN ORANGE COUNTY, POSSIBLE EXCEPTIONS FOR LOS ANGELES AND SAN DIEGO

Right off the bat I want to say my personal requirements for a relationship/dynamic are that you be:

• Leftist (we won’t get along if you’re anything to the center or right; I hold such views as ACAB, pro-science, pro-choice, Free Palestine, no transphobes or anti-sex workers, anti-imperialism/colonialism, can’t think white privilege is a myth, pro-immigration/refugees, views that align in that vein)
• Non-religious (I’m atheist myself, and don’t care to be with someone religious)
• Queer (along the bi/pan spectrum)
• Kinky or at least wanting to try kinky things
• ENM (I’m not polyamorous but I do enjoy having FWB attachments with others)
• Childfree (I’m sterilized and never want kids, you should also not want kids and not have any)

I understand any of the above can be dealbreakers for some so I rather people know so they can make an informed decision.

I’m at that point where I’d like a long-term dynamic with a Dom. I don’t like looking for potential online, it can be so mentally exhausting. But I figure I have a better chance here than anywhere to find someone who aligns with what I want!

I’m looking for a Mommy or Daddy Dom who is nurturing with their sub/babygirl, but at the same time knows when and how to dole out discipline. Someone who has a firm but just hand. I’m a brat when I sub; I can be a good girl but for the most part I’ll want to push your buttons and not listen. Of course, I know I’ll be punished but that doesn’t mean I’ll like it, ha! So Doms who appreciate brats and enjoy that dance of “will she behave, will she not” are desired. In short, I’m a bratty babygirl. I appreciate a stag/vixen aspect to a dynamic, knowing I’m being shared with other people for the pleasure of my Dom, who likes watching and directing me. I also know that I thrive with rules meant to benefit me, such as drinking a certain amount of water each day and getting at least 30 minutes of exercise a day. This would definitely be discussed between us. I want a Dom who is at least 30 , don’t approach me if you’re younger than me. It’s hard to seriously take a 25-year-old who says they have “years of experience of being a Dom”.

For Daddies, my type is white men who look like they could be crushed if I sat on their faces. For Mommies, I have no type. I have body photos in my last post. I’d want to exchange photos after some preliminary introductions and discussions because physical attraction is important, and I recognize we may not be each other’s type. My other main thing is that I want you to be unpartnered/unattached. I find that a lot of ENM people I’ve interacted with practice hierarchal non-monogamy, and since I want a long-term dynamic and to be a priority, I ask that you be single.

I suppose I qualify as a nerd! I love Dungeons & Dragons 5e and Pathfinder 2e. I play in groups for both! I enjoying playing video games on my switch and PC. I hope I can get a sweet dual or triple monitor set-up in the future! I like a variety of games but they usually fall into RPGs and co-ops. I like party games, especially those from Exploding Kittens. I’m working on learning how to play the ukulele and to crochet. If you need one how to do either, please teach me! I play piano, and do it for my own enjoyment. I need to practice more so any encouragement on that end and accountability would be great. I’ve been told I have a dry, sarcastic, dry sense of humor, but I also laugh at silly things. I treasure good company, so if I have a group of people around me that I enjoy hanging with, I don’t mind doing random activities.

One of my biggest things is that I hope for a Dom who enjoys being outdoors and the various activities. I’m no Ironman athlete myself and wouldn’t expect you to be either, but I would like a partner who enjoys it and is happy to go on such adventures with me. I like seeing and experiencing what Mother Nature has to offer, so you should too! A sense of adventure, someone who likes to get up to no good in the best possible way!

If any of this sounds appealing to you, please feel free to send me a chat (not a message, Reddit’s chatting system sucks but is marginally better than their message system). Please put some thought into it; I hit the ignore button if I see a lazy chat or a rude one.