Hello Lovely Queer Ladies of BDSM Personals!

(And only ladies, please. Men - I'm not at all interested, so please read this fully and save yourself the 30 seconds or so you could've used to do something more productive with your time. Seriously. One or more of you ALWAYS ignores this but I'm putting it anyway. If you DM me, you will be ignored and deleted, and not only is that a minute of your life you'll never get back again, but you also look really, really dumb, which is a shame. Do yourself a favor and just don't. Thank you!)

So, after a lot of introspection and reflection, I've come to realize that I have a really deep desire to be dominated. After many years of often being the top in almost all of my sexual encounters, I've really felt like something is missing, and the older I get, the more I find that I have a much more subservient side than I ever really knew. Mainly, I'd say this is because I have a pretty dominant personality in my regular everyday life, and I attract a lot of bottoms/subs in general, and that's extended to my bedroom activities. Which is lovely in its own way, but I really have tapped into wanting to explore sexual submission more deeply. I have had a really hard time finding other femme, queer women who are comfortable with this, and am often the one who's been expected to take the lead, initiate, and be the "top." So after much thinking it over, I've finally come to this place to see if I can find a way to get that need fulfilled!

I'm a geeky, outdoorsy millennial type (I know, it's Seattle, I'm going to have to be more specific) who in my vanilla life loves to cook, bake, hike, spend time with my awesome friends, snuggle with my cat, and watch great movies and shows.

If you are a lovely, sweet, lady-loving, femme domme, I'd love to hear from you! I'm looking for a gentle domme type presence, with someone who would be comfortable with someone who's a bit newer to this type of thing and who I could hopefully see regularly. Bonus points if you share any of the above interests, as well!

Ideally, you are:

-Femme (I have a type, I admit), and super bonus points if you're also tall (but it's fine if you're not)

-Gentle Domme Energy

-FULLY VAXXED AND BOOSTED. This is a dealbreaker. No exceptions. Getting regularly tested is also a must (I do as well).

-Love to give praise (I have a praise kink)

-Willing to meet for coffee or a drink first, ideally in person

-I'm open to F/F couples, but NOT M/F couples. Anyone currently in a couple must be in an ethical and honest open arrangement with their partner; I'm not the slightest bit interested in helping you cheat on your person.

Now, about me!

-Queer (and only date women)

-39 Years Old

-6 feet tall, slender, brunette, with hazel eyes.

-Cisgender (I am open to hearing from trans women)

-Very friendly and warm

-Fully vaxxed and boosted (latest booster October 2023), DDF

-Very comfortable discussing limits/boundaries/interests/speaking up

-Very very geeky (if you love sci fi and fantasy, we will hit it off spectacularly.)

If you feel like this is something that could work for you, "slide into my DMs," and introduce yourself! If I like what I see and read and I think we could click, I'll respond, and we can go from there!

Hope you all find what you're seeking!

Rose :)